{"id":889,"date":"2017-12-01T04:45:45","date_gmt":"2017-12-01T03:45:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nyje.al\/?p=889"},"modified":"2024-08-14T18:41:55","modified_gmt":"2024-08-14T16:41:55","slug":"banjat-si-pasqyre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nyje.al\/sq\/banjat-si-pasqyre\/","title":{"rendered":"Banjot si pasqyr\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Alban Tufa | 01.12.2017 | nyje.al<\/strong><\/span><\/p>

Shum\u00eb nga ju mund ta din\u00eb se, n\u00eb koh\u00ebt e m\u00ebparshme, kur nd\u00ebrtohej nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe dikush vinte p\u00ebr vizit\u00eb i d\u00ebftohej fillimisht dhoma e pritjes (ose oda e burrave) e mandej dhomat e tjera. Por, tashti gj\u00ebrat kan\u00eb ndryshuar. Ama, jo detyrimisht ky ndryshim n\u00ebnkupton evoluimin, p\u00ebrkundazi gj\u00ebrat kan\u00eb degraduar. Tashm\u00eb, kur nd\u00ebrtohet nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi e re ose blihet nj\u00eb apartament, e para q\u00eb duhet d\u00ebftuar (treguar, shfaqur, monitoruar, planifikuar, nd\u00ebrtuar, investuar, d\u00ebshiruar, reklamuar, etj.) \u00ebsht\u00eb banja ose, th\u00ebn\u00eb ndryshe, haleja, pa dashur aspak t\u2019i jap konotacione negative.<\/span><\/p>

Sot, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e \u00e7uditshme q\u00eb dikujt t\u2019i thuhet \u201cbujrum\u201d edhe nga ndenj\u00ebsa e banj\u00ebs. T\u00eb jem sa m\u00eb objektiv, banja, p\u00ebrve\u00e7se \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nevoj\u00eb e padiskutueshme dhe madje par\u00ebsore, \u00ebsht\u00eb shnd\u00ebrruar edhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend luksi n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn, s\u00ebrish p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb sa m\u00eb objektiv, shpenzohen miliona para duke nisur q\u00eb nga modelet e \u00e7ezmave, t\u00eb lavamen\u00ebve, pasqyrave e sendeve t\u00eb palistueshme q\u00eb mundet t\u00eb mbaj\u00eb nj\u00eb banj\u00eb. Jo m\u00eb kot, njer\u00ebzia e ka par\u00eb t\u00eb arsyeshme t\u00eb investoj\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb tilla k\u00ebnde sht\u00ebpiake, duke e b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebshtu banj\u00ebn (halen\u00eb) pasqyr\u00ebn e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. E nj\u00ebjta frym\u00eb ndiqet edhe nga bar-kafet\u00eb e ndryshme t\u00eb qyteteve dhe kryeqytetit. Kjo vihet re q\u00eb nga shenjat dalluese q\u00eb ndajn\u00eb banjat e burrave me t\u00eb grave dhe mandej n\u00eb pasqyrat dhe pllakat rrezatuese t\u00eb tyre, q\u00eb nga \u00e7ezmat e deri te dritat me sensor\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>

M\u00eb ka ndodhur n\u00eb nj\u00eb bar-kafe t\u00eb qytetit (q\u00eb p\u00ebr shkaqe etiko-deontologjike nuk do t\u2019ia them emrin) q\u00eb, mu te hyrja e sallonit t\u00eb banjave, t\u00eb shkel mbi nj\u00eb tapetth q\u00eb shkruante \u201cWelcome\u201d. Futem n\u00eb sallonin e banjave dhe shikoj n\u00eb der\u00eb nj\u00eb k\u00ebpuc\u00eb t\u00eb shesht\u00eb, e mendoj: \u201ckjo \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebpuc\u00eb meshkujsh.\u201d B\u00ebj t\u00eb kap dorez\u00ebn dhe, n\u00eb sekond\u00eb, s\u2019di si m\u00eb vajti mendja \u201csikur t\u00eb jen\u00eb k\u00ebpuc\u00eb unisex?\u201d Kthej kok\u00ebn n\u00eb der\u00ebn p\u00ebrball\u00eb dhe shoh nj\u00eb k\u00ebpuc\u00eb me tak\u00eb. Vet\u00ebkuptohet q\u00eb dyshimet m\u2019u zhb\u00ebn\u00eb. Pasi u futa n\u00eb t\u00eb dhe kreva nevojat fiziologjike, lexova nj\u00eb let\u00ebr t\u00eb formatit A4, ku shkruhej me shkrim Times New Romans t\u00eb madh\u00ebsis\u00eb, besoj, mbi 48: \u201cJu lutem hidhni uj\u00eb.\u201d Pasi i hodha uj\u00eb, mendova: \u201cKush do e ket\u00eb shkruar? Pastruesja, kamarieri, banakierja, apo vet\u00eb pronari?\u201d Megjithat\u00eb, prirem t\u00eb m\u00ebndoj se kjo lutje vjen nga pastruesja e k\u00ebt\u00eb e bazoj vet\u00ebm n\u00eb intonacionin lut\u00ebs q\u00eb i dhash\u00eb n\u00eb vete k\u00ebsaj fjalie tek e lexova. Pasi dola nga bar-kafeja, k\u00ebrkova me sy n\u00ebse ka tapetth me \u201cWelcome\u201d te dera hyr\u00ebse, por jo. Kishte vet\u00ebm te dyert e banjave. Mos mendoni se nuk u \u00e7udita. Ama kjo ndodhi vet\u00ebm her\u00ebn e par\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>

Pas k\u00ebtij episodi fillova t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetoj t\u00eb tjer\u00eb \u00e7do her\u00eb e m\u00eb shpesh derisa mb\u00ebrrita t\u00eb shoh nga nj\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eb. Jan\u00eb t\u00eb larmishme fletat me format A4 q\u00eb ngjiten n\u00eb muret e banjave: \u201cJu lutem hidhni uj\u00eb pas kryerjes s\u00eb n\u00ebvojave!\u201d; \u201cJu lutemi hidhini letrat n\u00eb kosh!\u201d; \u201cEsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr femrat.\u201d; \u201cJu lutem uluni kur t\u00eb kryeni nevojat!\u201d; e mbi gjitha k\u00ebto vlen t\u00eb p\u00ebrmendet nj\u00eb q\u00eb e kam lexuar diku: \u201cl\u00ebreni banjon ashtu si\u00e7 do donit ta gjenit.\u201d Disa nga k\u00ebta shkrues lutjesh p\u00ebr banja, harrojn\u00eb t\u00eb vendosin pik\u00eb\u00e7udit\u00ebse n\u00eb fund dhe, ndoshta, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja q\u00eb lutja iu pranohet realtivisht rrall\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>

Llojet e banjave jan\u00eb nga m\u00eb t\u00eb ndyshmet, nga m\u00eb t\u00eb bukurat, nga m\u00eb luksozet por, n\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb luks gjen vend, ve\u00e7 letrave A4, edhe mungesa e ujit, mungesa e letrave p\u00ebr duart, p\u00ebrmbedhur me pak fjal\u00eb mungon baza e nevojave. Disa banja jan\u00eb sajuar n\u00ebn shkall\u00eb ku duhet t\u00eb k\u00ebrrusesh, si\u00e7 ka edhe t\u00eb tjera q\u00eb sikur jan\u00eb projektuar p\u00ebr mejdane.<\/span><\/p>

Mbi gjith\u00eb k\u00ebto konkludime t\u00eb miat, nuk ma thyen kush iden\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00ebnyra se si sillesh n\u00eb banj\u00eb tregon sjelljen e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Alban Tufa | 01.12.2017 | nyje.al Shum\u00eb nga ju mund ta din\u00eb se, n\u00eb koh\u00ebt e m\u00ebparshme, kur nd\u00ebrtohej nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe dikush vinte p\u00ebr vizit\u00eb i d\u00ebftohej fillimisht dhoma e pritjes (ose oda e burrave) e mandej dhomat e tjera. Por, tashti gj\u00ebrat kan\u00eb ndryshuar. Ama, jo detyrimisht ky ndryshim n\u00ebnkupton evoluimin, p\u00ebrkundazi gj\u00ebrat kan\u00eb degraduar. Tashm\u00eb, kur nd\u00ebrtohet nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi e re ose blihet nj\u00eb apartament, e para q\u00eb duhet d\u00ebftuar (treguar, shfaqur, monitoruar, planifikuar, nd\u00ebrtuar, investuar, d\u00ebshiruar, reklamuar, etj.) \u00ebsht\u00eb banja ose, th\u00ebn\u00eb ndryshe, haleja, pa dashur aspak t\u2019i jap konotacione negative. Sot, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e \u00e7uditshme q\u00eb dikujt t\u2019i thuhet \u201cbujrum\u201d edhe nga ndenj\u00ebsa e banj\u00ebs. T\u00eb jem sa m\u00eb objektiv, banja, p\u00ebrve\u00e7se \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nevoj\u00eb e padiskutueshme dhe madje par\u00ebsore, \u00ebsht\u00eb shnd\u00ebrruar edhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend luksi n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn, s\u00ebrish p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb sa m\u00eb objektiv, shpenzohen miliona para duke nisur q\u00eb nga modelet e \u00e7ezmave, t\u00eb lavamen\u00ebve, pasqyrave e sendeve t\u00eb palistueshme q\u00eb mundet t\u00eb mbaj\u00eb nj\u00eb banj\u00eb. Jo m\u00eb kot, njer\u00ebzia e ka par\u00eb t\u00eb arsyeshme t\u00eb investoj\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb tilla k\u00ebnde sht\u00ebpiake, duke e b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebshtu banj\u00ebn (halen\u00eb) pasqyr\u00ebn e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. E nj\u00ebjta frym\u00eb ndiqet edhe nga bar-kafet\u00eb e ndryshme t\u00eb qyteteve dhe kryeqytetit. Kjo vihet re q\u00eb nga shenjat dalluese q\u00eb ndajn\u00eb banjat e burrave me t\u00eb grave dhe mandej n\u00eb pasqyrat dhe pllakat rrezatuese t\u00eb tyre, q\u00eb nga \u00e7ezmat e deri te dritat me sensor\u00eb. M\u00eb ka ndodhur n\u00eb nj\u00eb bar-kafe t\u00eb qytetit (q\u00eb p\u00ebr shkaqe etiko-deontologjike nuk do t\u2019ia them emrin) q\u00eb, mu te hyrja e sallonit t\u00eb banjave, t\u00eb shkel mbi nj\u00eb tapetth q\u00eb shkruante \u201cWelcome\u201d. Futem n\u00eb sallonin e banjave dhe shikoj n\u00eb der\u00eb nj\u00eb k\u00ebpuc\u00eb t\u00eb shesht\u00eb, e mendoj: \u201ckjo \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebpuc\u00eb meshkujsh.\u201d B\u00ebj t\u00eb kap dorez\u00ebn dhe, n\u00eb sekond\u00eb, s\u2019di si m\u00eb vajti mendja \u201csikur t\u00eb jen\u00eb k\u00ebpuc\u00eb unisex?\u201d Kthej kok\u00ebn n\u00eb der\u00ebn p\u00ebrball\u00eb dhe shoh nj\u00eb k\u00ebpuc\u00eb me tak\u00eb. Vet\u00ebkuptohet q\u00eb dyshimet m\u2019u zhb\u00ebn\u00eb. Pasi u futa n\u00eb t\u00eb dhe kreva nevojat fiziologjike, lexova nj\u00eb let\u00ebr t\u00eb formatit A4, ku shkruhej me shkrim Times New Romans t\u00eb madh\u00ebsis\u00eb, besoj, mbi 48: \u201cJu lutem hidhni uj\u00eb.\u201d Pasi i hodha uj\u00eb, mendova: \u201cKush do e ket\u00eb shkruar? Pastruesja, kamarieri, banakierja, apo vet\u00eb pronari?\u201d Megjithat\u00eb, prirem t\u00eb m\u00ebndoj se kjo lutje vjen nga pastruesja e k\u00ebt\u00eb e bazoj vet\u00ebm n\u00eb intonacionin lut\u00ebs q\u00eb i dhash\u00eb n\u00eb vete k\u00ebsaj fjalie tek e lexova. Pasi dola nga bar-kafeja, k\u00ebrkova me sy n\u00ebse ka tapetth me \u201cWelcome\u201d te dera hyr\u00ebse, por jo. Kishte vet\u00ebm te dyert e banjave. Mos mendoni se nuk u \u00e7udita. Ama kjo ndodhi vet\u00ebm her\u00ebn e par\u00eb. Pas k\u00ebtij episodi fillova t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetoj t\u00eb tjer\u00eb \u00e7do her\u00eb e m\u00eb shpesh derisa mb\u00ebrrita t\u00eb shoh nga nj\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eb. Jan\u00eb t\u00eb larmishme fletat me format A4 q\u00eb ngjiten n\u00eb muret e banjave: \u201cJu lutem hidhni uj\u00eb pas kryerjes s\u00eb n\u00ebvojave!\u201d; \u201cJu lutemi hidhini letrat n\u00eb kosh!\u201d; \u201cEsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr femrat.\u201d; \u201cJu lutem uluni kur t\u00eb kryeni nevojat!\u201d; e mbi gjitha k\u00ebto vlen t\u00eb p\u00ebrmendet nj\u00eb q\u00eb e kam lexuar diku: \u201cl\u00ebreni banjon ashtu si\u00e7 do donit ta gjenit.\u201d Disa nga k\u00ebta shkrues lutjesh p\u00ebr banja, harrojn\u00eb t\u00eb vendosin pik\u00eb\u00e7udit\u00ebse n\u00eb fund dhe, ndoshta, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja q\u00eb lutja iu pranohet realtivisht rrall\u00eb. Llojet e banjave jan\u00eb nga m\u00eb t\u00eb ndyshmet, nga m\u00eb t\u00eb bukurat, nga m\u00eb luksozet por, n\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb luks gjen vend, ve\u00e7 letrave A4, edhe mungesa e ujit, mungesa e letrave p\u00ebr duart, p\u00ebrmbedhur me pak fjal\u00eb mungon baza e nevojave. 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