{"id":816,"date":"2018-07-05T21:26:02","date_gmt":"2018-07-05T19:26:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nyje.al\/?p=816"},"modified":"2024-08-26T15:17:01","modified_gmt":"2024-08-26T13:17:01","slug":"vajzat-tona-enderrojne-larg","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nyje.al\/sq\/vajzat-tona-enderrojne-larg\/","title":{"rendered":"Vajzat tona \u00ebnd\u00ebrrojn\u00eb larg"},"content":{"rendered":"
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D-ja sapo i ka mbushur t\u00eb tet\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjetat dhe jeton shum\u00eb pak kilometra larg kryeqytetit, n\u00eb Kam\u00ebz. \u00cbsht\u00eb ende n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb t\u00eb mesme. Me keqardhje kujton se e ka humbur nj\u00eb vit m\u00ebsimor, at\u00eb t\u00eb provimeve t\u00eb lirimit, pasi, p\u00ebr arsye ekonomike emigroi familjarisht p\u00ebr tet\u00eb muaj. Azilin nuk e fituan dot dhe u kthyen. Me dy grop\u00ebza q\u00eb i b\u00ebhen n\u00eb faqe kur buz\u00ebqesh, tregon se shteti gjerman e afroi m\u00eb shum\u00eb me shkoll\u00ebn. Sapo u kthye, i vendosi vetes nj\u00eb q\u00ebllim: t\u00eb m\u00ebsoj\u00eb fort p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar n\u00eb gjimnazin m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb kryeqytetit q\u00eb mund t\u2019i hapet rruga p\u00ebr studime t\u00eb m\u00ebtejshme jasht\u00eb; t\u00eb punoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbledhur t\u00eb ardhurat q\u00eb i duhen p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos i l\u00ebn\u00eb vetes mangut pasionin e saj t\u00eb madh, arkitektur\u00ebn. I p\u00eblqen t\u00eb vizatoj\u00eb, i mjafton nj\u00eb laps dhe nj\u00eb let\u00ebr, por shpesh nuk gjen frym\u00ebzim dhe as koh\u00eb. I p\u00eblqen t\u00eb lexoj\u00eb libra fantastiko-shkencor\u00eb, me zor e pret fundjav\u00ebn dhe ver\u00ebn. Gjat\u00eb dimrit punon dhe studion. Zgjohet her\u00ebt, nga ora pes\u00eb. I p\u00eblqen t\u00eb meditoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb studioj\u00eb p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb. Mbr\u00ebmjeve \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e lodhur p\u00ebr t\u2019u marr\u00eb me studime apo lexime. Kalon rreth 11 or\u00eb jasht\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb me nj\u00eb m\u00ebngjes t\u00eb bollsh\u00ebm dhe nj\u00eb drek\u00eb \u201csnack\u201d q\u00eb e mban derisa kthehet n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Puna n\u00ebp\u00ebr qendrat e thirrjeve, q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb i njohim me emrin anglisht \u201ccall center\u201d, ia lodh vesh\u00ebt dhe mendjen dhe jan\u00eb shp\u00ebrblimet shtes\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb suksesshme q\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb duruar. Ver\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb pak m\u00eb e lir\u00eb. Prind\u00ebrit jan\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb, ajo kujdeset p\u00ebr sht\u00ebpin\u00eb dhe gjen koh\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrsos\u00eb gjuh\u00ebn e huaj. Interneti \u00ebsht\u00eb i vetmi mjet q\u00eb i jep lirin\u00eb t\u00eb lidhet me bot\u00ebn. \u00cbsht\u00eb nga ato nx\u00ebn\u00ebse q\u00eb nuk ka provuar t\u00eb d\u00ebshtoj\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb nga ato vajza q\u00eb i ka bindur prind\u00ebrit t\u00eb ken\u00eb besim tek ajo, se ajo nuk gabon, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb mendjeleht\u00eb, di t\u00eb zgjedh\u00eb dhe ka zgjedhur t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb larg. Ka zbuluar m\u00eb shum\u00eb se \u00e7\u2019do t\u00eb d\u00ebshironte. Ka zbuluar se k\u00ebtu, n\u00eb Kamz\u00ebn e saj, do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh ve\u00e7se grua p\u00ebr t\u00eb lindur f\u00ebmij\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur sht\u00ebpin\u00eb, pa patur lirin\u00eb t\u00eb provosh a t\u00eb zgjedh\u00ebsh. Ka zbuluar se syt\u00eb e tjer\u00eb e shohin k\u00ebshtu edhe sikur ajo t\u00eb d\u00ebshiroj\u00eb ndryshe. N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn e pubertetit, nuk kishte leje as p\u00ebr t\u00eb zbritur deri te dyqani i lagjes. Ka kuptuar se i duhet t\u00eb shp\u00ebtoj\u00eb lirin\u00eb e saj emocionale. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb duhet t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb diku larg. Dhjetra arsye p\u00ebr t\u2019u larguar, asnj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb q\u00ebndruar.<\/span><\/p>

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Xhesika \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebnt\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb vje\u00e7. Deri n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn gjasht\u00eb vje\u00e7are \u00ebsht\u00eb rritur n\u00eb Greqi. Prind\u00ebrit e saj kan\u00eb nj\u00eb biznes t\u00eb vog\u00ebl n\u00eb Kam\u00ebz, atje ku ajo vendosi t\u00eb studioj\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00ebn profesionale p\u00ebr hoteleri-turiz\u00ebm, nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u2019u gjendur m\u00eb pran\u00eb biznesit familjar. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb i duhet t\u00eb zgjohet shum\u00eb her\u00ebt p\u00ebr t\u2019i ndihmuar. I p\u00eblqen shum\u00eb t\u00eb gatuaj\u00eb, sidomos \u00ebmb\u00eblsirat. Do q\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka e p\u00ebrgatitur t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb nga duart e saj t\u00eb bardha, t\u00eb kuruara. Do t\u00eb donte t\u00eb niste nj\u00eb biznes \u00ebmb\u00eblsirash, ndryshe nga \u00ebmb\u00ebltoret q\u00eb ka par\u00eb deri tani. I p\u00eblqen t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb koh\u00eb me shok\u00eb e shoqe, me lojra dhe aktivitete n\u00eb grup. Ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb shok\u00eb se shoqe dhe preferon t\u00eb sh\u00ebtis\u00eb n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb. Por, nuk ka si sh\u00ebtitjet vet\u00ebm. Nuk ngurron t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb nga biznesi i familjes kur del me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb, q\u00eb t\u2019u krijoj\u00eb prind\u00ebrve besimin se nuk po b\u00ebn asnj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb gabuar. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb e ndjen mir\u00ebkuptimin e s\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebs kur i flet p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e saj personale.<\/span><\/p>

Ka dy vjet q\u00eb ver\u00ebn e kalon duke punuar. Nuk ankohet hi\u00e7 p\u00ebr lodhjen kur mendon p\u00ebr g\u00ebzimin q\u00eb i sillnin ato pak lek\u00eb q\u00eb fitonte nga puna n\u00eb fasoneri. Nisi si loj\u00eb. Q\u00ebndrimi n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb p\u00ebr tet\u00eb or\u00eb ishte i lodhsh\u00ebm, por m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti at\u00eb e kishin lodhur fytyra n\u00ebnash q\u00eb punonin nga dy turne. Xhesika nuk e imagjinon dot sesi mund t\u2019i shtysh m\u00eb shum\u00eb se tet\u00eb or\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb mjedis pune mekanike. Edhe veshjen duhej ta p\u00ebrshtaste me punonj\u00ebset e tjera. Ajo ka punuar n\u00eb sektorin e heqjes s\u00eb thumbave n\u00eb pjes\u00ebn e prapme t\u00eb k\u00ebpuc\u00ebve, por nuk i ka ndodhur t\u2019i ket\u00eb provuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebn e saj ato k\u00ebpuc\u00eb. Jan\u00eb t\u00eb shtrenjta dhe tregun e kan\u00eb jasht\u00eb Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb. K\u00ebt\u00eb ver\u00eb ka nj\u00eb lajm pas t\u00eb cilit ka varur t\u00eb gjitha shpresat: llotaria amerikane. Ende nuk ka asnj\u00eb ide p\u00ebr drejtimin q\u00eb do t\u00eb marr\u00eb pas k\u00ebsaj jeta e saj.<\/span><\/p>

Ka zbuluar q\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr intimitetin e saj dhe p\u00ebr pavar\u00ebsi ekonomike. Prind\u00ebrit do t\u2019i jepnin bekimin p\u00ebr ta nisur bij\u00ebn e tyre drejt bot\u00ebve t\u00eb zhvilluara, por jo lejen p\u00ebr t\u00eb punuar n\u00eb profesionin e saj buz\u00eb bregdetit shqiptar. Ka zbuluar se njeriu duhet t\u00eb provoj\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb, mbi t\u00eb gjitha t\u00eb udh\u00ebtoj\u00eb. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb kureshtare: \u00a0Si do t\u00eb ishin ato hap\u00ebsira lirie q\u00eb sot m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti i njeh p\u00ebrmes teknologjis\u00eb dhe internetit?<\/span>
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Raimonda \u00ebsht\u00eb gati nj\u00ebzet\u00eb e gjasht\u00eb vje\u00e7. Ishte f\u00ebmij\u00eb kur familja u zhvendos nga Kuk\u00ebsi n\u00eb Kam\u00ebz. E \u00ebma \u00ebsht\u00eb sht\u00ebpiake, nd\u00ebrsa babai piktor. Ajo e ka dashur gjithmon\u00eb mjek\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe studioi pes\u00eb vjet fizioterapi. Me nj\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjim q\u00eb mundohet ta fsheh\u00eb pas nj\u00eb buz\u00ebq\u00ebshjeje, ka zbuluar q\u00eb puna nuk i vler\u00ebsohet. Ka aplikuar shum\u00eb p\u00ebr ta praktikuar profesionin e saj, por nuk ka marr\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje. Nuk kishte asnj\u00eb garanci se do t\u00eb q\u00ebndronte a do t\u00eb paguhej, n\u00eb ato raste kur i ofronin 3 muaj praktik\u00eb pa pages\u00eb. Qendrat e thirrjeve i ofronin pages\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrmuajshme pak m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb. Raimonda ka qen\u00eb e vetmja n\u00eb familjen e saj me nj\u00eb rrog\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme p\u00ebr disa koh\u00eb. Por, nuk ia dilte t\u2019u shiste klient\u00ebve paketat turistike q\u00eb ata k\u00ebrkonin e t\u00eb plot\u00ebsonte norm\u00ebn e vendosur nga p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit e saj. K\u00ebshtu, e humbi pun\u00ebn. Ka provuar edhe pun\u00eb t\u00eb tjera si vullnetare, q\u00eb nga larja e pjatave n\u00eb lokalin e dasmave t\u00eb nj\u00eb familjarit t\u00eb saj e deri te ndihma q\u00eb i jep t\u00eb atit n\u00eb piktur\u00eb. P\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb gjej\u00eb kurse q\u00eb i ngjallin kureshtje dhe interes, ose organizata joqeveritare q\u00eb p\u00ebrmbushin q\u00ebllime humanitare. Kjo e ka ndihmuar t\u00eb njoh\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb rinj.<\/span><\/p>

N\u00eb ver\u00eb Kamza i duket bosh. Lexon, pikturon – kryesisht portrete. I mungon parku, gjelb\u00ebrimi. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj stine shkon te gjyshja n\u00eb Kuk\u00ebs, sh\u00ebtit pran\u00eb lumit a liqenit mbasditeve. Tani edhe ajo po aplikon p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebrguar, vendim q\u00eb e mori pas nj\u00eb praktike pune p\u00ebr fizioterapi n\u00eb Gjermani, sepse pa atje q\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekja dhe mundimi i individit vler\u00ebsohen. Pyetjet dhe k\u00ebrkesat atje marrin p\u00ebrgjigje. Ka zbuluar se ka ende nj\u00eb sfid\u00eb p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb shijoj\u00eb jet\u00ebn kur t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb Gjermani: t\u00eb \u00e7lirohet nga xhaxhai, i cili do ta mbik\u00ebqyr\u00eb atje derisa ajo t\u00eb krijoj\u00eb nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb saj\u00ebn. Vet\u00ebm n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb u ofron prind\u00ebrve qet\u00ebsin\u00eb se ajo do t\u00eb jet\u00eb e sigurt dhe e mbrojtur. Ka kuptuar nga p\u00ebrvoja se misteret m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha fshihen brenda saj, e tani d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb gjej\u00eb nj\u00eb vend t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb shpalosur veten.<\/span>
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\u00cbsht\u00eb ver\u00eb. Qyteti \u00ebsht\u00eb i qet\u00eb dhe i rregullt, si kuti. Mbi format e buta t\u00eb kodrinave dhe fushave shtrihen sht\u00ebpi deri n\u00eb tri kate. Ka vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb kryesore p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb s\u00eb cil\u00ebs shtrihet edhe bashkia e qytetit, nj\u00eb nd\u00ebrtes\u00eb me xhama, brenda s\u00eb cil\u00ebs nuk ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb presin, k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb, shtyhen a ankohen. P\u00ebrmes rrug\u00ebs kryesore mund t\u00eb shkosh shum\u00eb leht\u00eb n\u00eb park. Parku ka pata e mjelma q\u00eb lahen n\u00eb lumin aty pran\u00eb. Syri sheh p\u00ebrtej deri sa p\u00ebrhumbet n\u00eb horizontet e ngjyrosura prej per\u00ebndimit. Treni q\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7on prej aty n\u00eb destinacione t\u00eb tjera \u00ebsht\u00eb si nj\u00eb kinema. Nga dritaret drejtk\u00ebndore t\u00eb trenit mund t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh diellin q\u00eb bie mbi fushat e mbjella, lulet e \u00e7elura, male t\u00eb larg\u00ebta, njer\u00ebz n\u00eb pun\u00ebn e tyre, ndonj\u00eb fabrik\u00eb q\u00eb ve\u00e7 tymi i duket e p\u00ebrreth pem\u00eb, pem\u00eb, pem\u00eb. Mendja p\u00ebrhumbet n\u00eb thell\u00ebsit\u00eb larg t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshmes, n\u00eb drejtimin e yllit t\u00eb par\u00eb q\u00eb rrez\u00ebllin pa r\u00ebn\u00eb muzgu. \u00c7\u2019piktur\u00eb do t\u00eb kishte qen\u00eb ajo q\u00eb vajzat shohin me syt\u00eb e mendjes! Nj\u00eb peizazh mbresl\u00ebn\u00ebs a nj\u00eb portret q\u00eb flet? Ndoshta D-ja do ta kalonte koh\u00ebn duke vizatuar, e Raimonda do t\u00eb kish b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb portret me t\u00eb gjitha shprehit\u00eb e pavullnetshme t\u00eb habis\u00eb n\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn e D-s\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrsa Xhesika do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb shihte avion\u00ebt tek fluturojn\u00eb n\u00eb qiellin e pag\u00ebrvishtur duke pritur dit\u00ebn q\u00eb do t\u00eb shoh\u00eb ret\u00eb puplore p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb zbres\u00eb n\u00eb tok\u00ebn e mrekullive njer\u00ebzore. Ndonj\u00eb ver\u00eb, do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb shijonim \u00ebmb\u00eblsirat q\u00eb Xhesika do t\u00eb b\u00ebnte plot dashuri me duart e saj. Mbase do t\u00eb pranonim sugjerimin e syrit arkitekt t\u00eb D-s\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i kthyer lumenjt\u00eb e Kamz\u00ebs n\u00eb nj\u00eb park madh\u00ebshtor. Nga kjo do t\u00eb kishte p\u00ebrfituar patjet\u00ebr Raimonda, q\u00eb do t\u00eb ishte e para p\u00ebr ta vizituar at\u00eb park. Sigurisht, do t\u00eb mund t\u2019i d\u00ebgjonim k\u00ebshillat, apo t\u00eb ndjenim duart e saj teksa shtendosin dhimbjet e trupit njer\u00ebzor q\u00eb krijon jeta p\u00ebrmes l\u00ebvizjes. Mes nevoj\u00ebs p\u00ebr siguri dhe k\u00ebrkes\u00ebs p\u00ebr liri, vajzat tona \u00ebnd\u00ebrrojn\u00eb larg!<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Evi Veliu | 05.07.2018 | nyje.al D-ja sapo i ka mbushur t\u00eb tet\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjetat dhe jeton shum\u00eb pak kilometra larg kryeqytetit, n\u00eb Kam\u00ebz. \u00cbsht\u00eb ende n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb t\u00eb mesme. Me keqardhje kujton se e ka humbur nj\u00eb vit m\u00ebsimor, at\u00eb t\u00eb provimeve t\u00eb lirimit, pasi, p\u00ebr arsye ekonomike emigroi familjarisht p\u00ebr tet\u00eb muaj. Azilin nuk e fituan dot dhe u kthyen. Me dy grop\u00ebza q\u00eb i b\u00ebhen n\u00eb faqe kur buz\u00ebqesh, tregon se shteti gjerman e afroi m\u00eb shum\u00eb me shkoll\u00ebn. Sapo u kthye, i vendosi vetes nj\u00eb q\u00ebllim: t\u00eb m\u00ebsoj\u00eb fort p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar n\u00eb gjimnazin m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb kryeqytetit q\u00eb mund t\u2019i hapet rruga p\u00ebr studime t\u00eb m\u00ebtejshme jasht\u00eb; t\u00eb punoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbledhur t\u00eb ardhurat q\u00eb i duhen p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos i l\u00ebn\u00eb vetes mangut pasionin e saj t\u00eb madh, arkitektur\u00ebn. I p\u00eblqen t\u00eb vizatoj\u00eb, i mjafton nj\u00eb laps dhe nj\u00eb let\u00ebr, por shpesh nuk gjen frym\u00ebzim dhe as koh\u00eb. I p\u00eblqen t\u00eb lexoj\u00eb libra fantastiko-shkencor\u00eb, me zor e pret fundjav\u00ebn dhe ver\u00ebn. Gjat\u00eb dimrit punon dhe studion. Zgjohet her\u00ebt, nga ora pes\u00eb. I p\u00eblqen t\u00eb meditoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb studioj\u00eb p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb. Mbr\u00ebmjeve \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e lodhur p\u00ebr t\u2019u marr\u00eb me studime apo lexime. Kalon rreth 11 or\u00eb jasht\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb me nj\u00eb m\u00ebngjes t\u00eb bollsh\u00ebm dhe nj\u00eb drek\u00eb \u201csnack\u201d q\u00eb e mban derisa kthehet n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Puna n\u00ebp\u00ebr qendrat e thirrjeve, q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb i njohim me emrin anglisht \u201ccall center\u201d, ia lodh vesh\u00ebt dhe mendjen dhe jan\u00eb shp\u00ebrblimet shtes\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb suksesshme q\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb duruar. Ver\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb pak m\u00eb e lir\u00eb. Prind\u00ebrit jan\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb, ajo kujdeset p\u00ebr sht\u00ebpin\u00eb dhe gjen koh\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrsos\u00eb gjuh\u00ebn e huaj. Interneti \u00ebsht\u00eb i vetmi mjet q\u00eb i jep lirin\u00eb t\u00eb lidhet me bot\u00ebn. \u00cbsht\u00eb nga ato nx\u00ebn\u00ebse q\u00eb nuk ka provuar t\u00eb d\u00ebshtoj\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb nga ato vajza q\u00eb i ka bindur prind\u00ebrit t\u00eb ken\u00eb besim tek ajo, se ajo nuk gabon, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb mendjeleht\u00eb, di t\u00eb zgjedh\u00eb dhe ka zgjedhur t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb larg. Ka zbuluar m\u00eb shum\u00eb se \u00e7\u2019do t\u00eb d\u00ebshironte. Ka zbuluar se k\u00ebtu, n\u00eb Kamz\u00ebn e saj, do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh ve\u00e7se grua p\u00ebr t\u00eb lindur f\u00ebmij\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur sht\u00ebpin\u00eb, pa patur lirin\u00eb t\u00eb provosh a t\u00eb zgjedh\u00ebsh. Ka zbuluar se syt\u00eb e tjer\u00eb e shohin k\u00ebshtu edhe sikur ajo t\u00eb d\u00ebshiroj\u00eb ndryshe. N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn e pubertetit, nuk kishte leje as p\u00ebr t\u00eb zbritur deri te dyqani i lagjes. Ka kuptuar se i duhet t\u00eb shp\u00ebtoj\u00eb lirin\u00eb e saj emocionale. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb duhet t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb diku larg. Dhjetra arsye p\u00ebr t\u2019u larguar, asnj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb q\u00ebndruar. \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Xhesika \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebnt\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb vje\u00e7. Deri n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn gjasht\u00eb vje\u00e7are \u00ebsht\u00eb rritur n\u00eb Greqi. Prind\u00ebrit e saj kan\u00eb nj\u00eb biznes t\u00eb vog\u00ebl n\u00eb Kam\u00ebz, atje ku ajo vendosi t\u00eb studioj\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00ebn profesionale p\u00ebr hoteleri-turiz\u00ebm, nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u2019u gjendur m\u00eb pran\u00eb biznesit familjar. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb i duhet t\u00eb zgjohet shum\u00eb her\u00ebt p\u00ebr t\u2019i ndihmuar. I p\u00eblqen shum\u00eb t\u00eb gatuaj\u00eb, sidomos \u00ebmb\u00eblsirat. Do q\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka e p\u00ebrgatitur t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb nga duart e saj t\u00eb bardha, t\u00eb kuruara. Do t\u00eb donte t\u00eb niste nj\u00eb biznes \u00ebmb\u00eblsirash, ndryshe nga \u00ebmb\u00ebltoret q\u00eb ka par\u00eb deri tani. I p\u00eblqen t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb koh\u00eb me shok\u00eb e shoqe, me lojra dhe aktivitete n\u00eb grup. Ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb shok\u00eb se shoqe dhe preferon t\u00eb sh\u00ebtis\u00eb n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb. Por, nuk ka si sh\u00ebtitjet vet\u00ebm. Nuk ngurron t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb nga biznesi i familjes kur del me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb, q\u00eb t\u2019u krijoj\u00eb prind\u00ebrve besimin se nuk po b\u00ebn asnj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb gabuar. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb e ndjen mir\u00ebkuptimin e s\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebs kur i flet p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e saj personale. Ka dy vjet q\u00eb ver\u00ebn e kalon duke punuar. 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