{"id":2983,"date":"2020-02-25T10:33:09","date_gmt":"2020-02-25T09:33:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nyje.al\/?p=2983"},"modified":"2024-09-04T15:41:33","modified_gmt":"2024-09-04T13:41:33","slug":"2983-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nyje.al\/sq\/2983-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Nj\u00eb jet\u00eb pa q\u00ebllime t\u00eb m\u00ebdha"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Anxhela Sulkja | 25.02.2020 | nyje.al<\/strong><\/span><\/p>

Udh\u00ebtim n\u00eb t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn
<\/strong><\/span>N\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb titull \u201cUdh\u00ebtim n\u00eb t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn\u201d, po botojm\u00eb nj\u00eb cik\u00ebl shkrimesh dhe bisedash nga disa t\u00eb rinj nga qytete t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb q\u00eb aspirojn\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhen gazetar\u00eb. Jan\u00eb realizuar me prind\u00ebrit, gjysh\u00ebrit dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit e tyre me q\u00ebllim njohjen e jet\u00ebs n\u00eb rreth t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb familjar po edhe njohjen e jet\u00ebs shoq\u00ebrore p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb shekullit t\u00eb kaluar. Si jetonin apo mbijetonin njer\u00ebzit tan\u00eb; si dashuroheshin apo detyroheshin t\u00eb zgjidhnin njeriun e jet\u00ebs; si e g\u00ebzonin jet\u00ebn dhe si i p\u00ebrballonin goditjet e saj; si ishin t\u00eb ndara rolet n\u00eb familje, dhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri sa t\u00eb varf\u00ebr aq edhe t\u00eb kontrolluar si\u00e7 ishte shoq\u00ebria shqiptare n\u00eb vitet 1945-1990?<\/em><\/span>
Jan\u00eb rr\u00ebfime q\u00eb iu tregojn\u00eb t\u00eb rinjve se e shkuara e paraardh\u00ebsve, n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb apo n\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen e secilit dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen e nj\u00eb vendi t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb.<\/em><\/span><\/p>

I ngr\u00ebn\u00eb apo i uritur, i veshur keq apo pak m\u00eb mir\u00eb se t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, familje me shum\u00eb apo me pak f\u00ebmij\u00eb, me shkoll\u00eb apo pa t\u00eb drejt\u00eb studimi. N\u00eb kujtimet e Nazmiut, e gjitha ajo q\u00eb quhet jet\u00eb, ishte n\u00ebn komuniz\u00ebm, thjesht jet\u00eb<\/span><\/p>

Nj\u00eb jet\u00eb pa q\u00ebllime t\u00eb m\u00ebdha<\/strong><\/span>
Shoq\u00ebri e frik\u00ebsuar, por familje e fort\u00eb dhe e sh\u00ebndetshme. Paradoksale duket bashk\u00ebjetesa e k\u00ebtyre dy rrath\u00ebve t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ne shpesh i p\u00ebrdorim si pasqyra p\u00ebr t\u00eb krahasuar veten ton\u00eb t\u00eb sotme dhe modelin familjar e shoq\u00ebror p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin thuhet se as model nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb.<\/span>
T\u00eb pakt\u00ebn k\u00ebtu m\u00eb \u00e7on biseda me gjyshin tim Nazmi Sulkja, sot 86-vje\u00e7. Dita e tij rrjedh e qet\u00eb, zakonisht i ulur n\u00eb divan, n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e tij n\u00eb Peqin, qyteti i vog\u00ebl ku ka kaluar gjith\u00eb jeta e tij.<\/span><\/p>

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Nazmi Sulkja<\/figcaption><\/figure>

Kur p\u00ebrmendet komunizmi apo emri i Enver Hoxh\u00ebs \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb vjen n\u00eb mendje s\u00eb pari?<\/strong><\/span>
(Buz\u00ebqesh) Enveri \u00ebsht\u00eb komunizmi p\u00ebr mua. Gj\u00ebja e par\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb vjen t\u00eb them \u00ebsht\u00eb sa e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb ka qen\u00eb ajo koh\u00eb. At\u00ebher\u00eb nuk e mendoja q\u00eb jeta jon\u00eb ishte e mundimshme. Besonim se jeta ashtu ishte. Edhe pse me zor e mbushnim barkun m\u00eb buk\u00eb\u00a0 apo t\u00eb kishim veshmbathje t\u00eb mira p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, na dukej normale sepse ajo ishte gjendja e p\u00ebrgjithshme. Krahasuar me dit\u00ebt q\u00eb jetoj sot e kuptoj q\u00eb paskemi vuajtur shum\u00eb nga komunizmi.<\/span><\/p>

T\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb p\u00ebrjetonin edhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit e tu apo rrethi i njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb njihje?<\/strong><\/span>
Un\u00eb kam pasur shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb madhe. Puna n\u00eb kooperativ\u00eb ku kalonim pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb dit\u00ebs, dhe t\u00eb jet\u00ebs po them, normalisht q\u00eb krijonte mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur lidhje miq\u00ebsore q\u00eb n\u00eb rastin tim kan\u00eb vazhduar gjat\u00eb. E donim nj\u00ebri-tjetrin dhe kjo ishte nga gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb edhe pun\u00ebn na e b\u00ebnte m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb.<\/span>
Sa p\u00ebr familjen, ne ishim tre djem dhe dy vajza. Prind\u00ebrit tan\u00eb, ndryshe nga k\u00ebta t\u00eb sotmit, nuk kishin \u201cq\u00ebllime t\u00eb m\u00ebdha\u201c p\u00ebr t\u00eb na shkolluar n\u00eb shkoll\u00ebn apo universitetin m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, apo t\u00eb na organizonin pushime ver\u00ebs n\u00eb plazh. Kryesorja ishte q\u00eb ne t\u00eb kryenim detyrimet tona ndaj shtetit, t\u00eb shkonim n\u00eb pun\u00eb, t\u00eb silleshim mir\u00eb, t\u00eb krijonim familje dhe t\u00eb nderonim partin\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>

I ke ruajtur ti k\u00ebto q\u00ebllime p\u00ebr familjen t\u00ebnde?<\/strong><\/span>
N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 20-vje\u00e7are babai m\u00eb tha \u201cdo martohesh\u201c. M\u00eb kishin gjetur nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 16-vje\u00e7are nga nj\u00eb fshat aty pran\u00eb Peqinit. U martuam. B\u00ebm\u00eb nj\u00eb dasm\u00eb jo t\u00eb madhe ku festuam me familjar\u00eb dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrm.<\/span>
Krijimi i familjes \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb bukura. Mentaliteti nuk na e lejonte q\u00eb t\u00eb kishim dob\u00ebsi ndaj gruas dhe ta shprehim at\u00eb. Nuk ishim shum\u00eb t\u00eb hapur me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. E gjith\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia n\u00eb \u00e7ift ishte pun\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar nj\u00eb familje dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb ushqyer f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb. Nga martesa kemi shtat\u00eb f\u00ebmije, pes\u00eb vajza dhe dy djem. Sot, fal\u00eb zotit, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb lumtur n\u00eb familjet e tyre.<\/span><\/p>

Pes\u00eb vajza! A nuk ishte lindja e djemve k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia m\u00eb e madhe e familjeve tona?<\/strong><\/span>
(Qesh) F\u00ebmij\u00ebn e par\u00eb e kemi vajz\u00eb, m\u00eb pas nj\u00eb djal\u00eb, tri vajza t\u00eb tjera dh\u00eb n\u00eb fund vjen prap\u00eb djal\u00eb. E para nj\u00ebher\u00eb shtat\u00ebzanin\u00eb e gruas e mora vesh kur ishte disa muajshe, sepse ishte turp q\u00eb n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb flisnim p\u00ebr k\u00ebto. Ishte krenari e madhe q\u00eb do b\u00ebhesha baba. Ishte vajz\u00eb e para, por nuk e mohoj, doja t\u00eb ishte djal\u00eb. Kur familjes son\u00eb iu shtuan tri vajza nj\u00ebra pas tjetr\u00ebs, tek shoq\u00ebria krijohej p\u00ebrshtypja se kjo nuk ishte normale, se kishte di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk shkonte tek gruaja ime. Por e kaluam sepse nuk deshi shum\u00eb dhe f\u00ebmija yn\u00eb i fundit q\u00eb erdhi n\u00eb jet\u00eb ishte djal\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>

Mund t\u00eb quhet familje e madhe kjo. Po si ndaheshin detyrat brenda jush p\u00ebr rritjen dhe shkollimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve?<\/strong><\/span>
N\u00eb fakt v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb filluan shum\u00eb her\u00ebt sepse jetonim t\u00eb gjith\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt me motrat dhe v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit e mi. Duke qen\u00eb se un\u00eb isha i pari q\u00eb u martova, m\u00eb dhan\u00eb nj\u00eb dhom\u00eb brenda sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. M\u00eb pas me shum\u00eb sakrifica, bashk\u00eb me gruan, arrit\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtonim edhe nj\u00eb dhom\u00eb tjet\u00ebr ku mund t\u00eb kishim vend t\u00eb gjith\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb krevat. Mund\u00ebsit\u00eb ekonomike ishin t\u00eb vogla. Na duheshe t\u00eb punonim dit\u00eb e nat\u00eb, gruaja n\u00eb ferm\u00eb me bag\u00ebtit\u00eb, un\u00eb me nj\u00eb karroc\u00eb me kal\u00eb shp\u00ebrndaja qum\u00ebsht n\u00eb zon\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrsa f\u00ebmij\u00ebt rrisnin nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. P\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe e ka pasur vajza e par\u00eb. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb kujdesur p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb.<\/span>
Me shum\u00eb sakrifica arrit\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u2018iu jepnim f\u00ebmij\u00ebve shkollimin 8-vje\u00e7ar. Peng e kam q\u00eb nuk munda t\u2018iu ofroja m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Dy nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt kan\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb dalluar n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, por nuk kisha asnj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi ekonomike. Ato pak bursa q\u00eb shp\u00ebrndaheshin n\u00eb zon\u00ebn ton\u00eb nuk mund\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u2018i fitonin.<\/span><\/p>

E nd\u00ebrsa sot je k\u00ebtu dhe numuron m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 60 vjet martes\u00eb, mendon se pasja e nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb bashkuar dhe t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe si pasoj\u00eb e mentalitetit dhe koh\u00ebs kur keni jetuar?<\/strong><\/span>
N\u00ebse do q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb them di\u00e7ka q\u00eb un\u00eb e mendoj v\u00ebrtet, \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb ne kemi jetuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb kur gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb prisheshin i rregullonim dhe nuk i hidhnim. Kemi pasur shum\u00eb probleme n\u00eb 60 vjet martes\u00eb dhe jemi p\u00ebrballur me shum\u00eb sfida, por i lidh\u00ebm fort jet\u00ebt tona dhe do b\u00ebnim gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb funksiononte si\u00e7 duhet. Ndoshta edhe sepse ashtu ishte m\u00ebnyra se si na e kishin m\u00ebsuar ta shihnim martes\u00ebn. Por shiko, pavar\u00ebsisht t\u00eb gjithave, sot jam n\u00eb periudh\u00ebm m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs sime.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Anxhela Sulkja | 25.02.2020 | nyje.al Udh\u00ebtim n\u00eb t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebnN\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb titull \u201cUdh\u00ebtim n\u00eb t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn\u201d, po botojm\u00eb nj\u00eb cik\u00ebl shkrimesh dhe bisedash nga disa t\u00eb rinj nga qytete t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb q\u00eb aspirojn\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhen gazetar\u00eb. Jan\u00eb realizuar me prind\u00ebrit, gjysh\u00ebrit dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit e tyre me q\u00ebllim njohjen e jet\u00ebs n\u00eb rreth t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb familjar po edhe njohjen e jet\u00ebs shoq\u00ebrore p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb shekullit t\u00eb kaluar. Si jetonin apo mbijetonin njer\u00ebzit tan\u00eb; si dashuroheshin apo detyroheshin t\u00eb zgjidhnin njeriun e jet\u00ebs; si e g\u00ebzonin jet\u00ebn dhe si i p\u00ebrballonin goditjet e saj; si ishin t\u00eb ndara rolet n\u00eb familje, dhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri sa t\u00eb varf\u00ebr aq edhe t\u00eb kontrolluar si\u00e7 ishte shoq\u00ebria shqiptare n\u00eb vitet 1945-1990?Jan\u00eb rr\u00ebfime q\u00eb iu tregojn\u00eb t\u00eb rinjve se e shkuara e paraardh\u00ebsve, n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb apo n\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen e secilit dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen e nj\u00eb vendi t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb. I ngr\u00ebn\u00eb apo i uritur, i veshur keq apo pak m\u00eb mir\u00eb se t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, familje me shum\u00eb apo me pak f\u00ebmij\u00eb, me shkoll\u00eb apo pa t\u00eb drejt\u00eb studimi. N\u00eb kujtimet e Nazmiut, e gjitha ajo q\u00eb quhet jet\u00eb, ishte n\u00ebn komuniz\u00ebm, thjesht jet\u00eb Nj\u00eb jet\u00eb pa q\u00ebllime t\u00eb m\u00ebdhaShoq\u00ebri e frik\u00ebsuar, por familje e fort\u00eb dhe e sh\u00ebndetshme. Paradoksale duket bashk\u00ebjetesa e k\u00ebtyre dy rrath\u00ebve t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ne shpesh i p\u00ebrdorim si pasqyra p\u00ebr t\u00eb krahasuar veten ton\u00eb t\u00eb sotme dhe modelin familjar e shoq\u00ebror p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin thuhet se as model nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb.T\u00eb pakt\u00ebn k\u00ebtu m\u00eb \u00e7on biseda me gjyshin tim Nazmi Sulkja, sot 86-vje\u00e7. Dita e tij rrjedh e qet\u00eb, zakonisht i ulur n\u00eb divan, n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e tij n\u00eb Peqin, qyteti i vog\u00ebl ku ka kaluar gjith\u00eb jeta e tij. Kur p\u00ebrmendet komunizmi apo emri i Enver Hoxh\u00ebs \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb vjen n\u00eb mendje s\u00eb pari?(Buz\u00ebqesh) Enveri \u00ebsht\u00eb komunizmi p\u00ebr mua. Gj\u00ebja e par\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb vjen t\u00eb them \u00ebsht\u00eb sa e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb ka qen\u00eb ajo koh\u00eb. At\u00ebher\u00eb nuk e mendoja q\u00eb jeta jon\u00eb ishte e mundimshme. Besonim se jeta ashtu ishte. Edhe pse me zor e mbushnim barkun m\u00eb buk\u00eb\u00a0 apo t\u00eb kishim veshmbathje t\u00eb mira p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, na dukej normale sepse ajo ishte gjendja e p\u00ebrgjithshme. Krahasuar me dit\u00ebt q\u00eb jetoj sot e kuptoj q\u00eb paskemi vuajtur shum\u00eb nga komunizmi. T\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb p\u00ebrjetonin edhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit e tu apo rrethi i njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb njihje?Un\u00eb kam pasur shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb madhe. Puna n\u00eb kooperativ\u00eb ku kalonim pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb dit\u00ebs, dhe t\u00eb jet\u00ebs po them, normalisht q\u00eb krijonte mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur lidhje miq\u00ebsore q\u00eb n\u00eb rastin tim kan\u00eb vazhduar gjat\u00eb. E donim nj\u00ebri-tjetrin dhe kjo ishte nga gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb edhe pun\u00ebn na e b\u00ebnte m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb.Sa p\u00ebr familjen, ne ishim tre djem dhe dy vajza. Prind\u00ebrit tan\u00eb, ndryshe nga k\u00ebta t\u00eb sotmit, nuk kishin \u201cq\u00ebllime t\u00eb m\u00ebdha\u201c p\u00ebr t\u00eb na shkolluar n\u00eb shkoll\u00ebn apo universitetin m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, apo t\u00eb na organizonin pushime ver\u00ebs n\u00eb plazh. Kryesorja ishte q\u00eb ne t\u00eb kryenim detyrimet tona ndaj shtetit, t\u00eb shkonim n\u00eb pun\u00eb, t\u00eb silleshim mir\u00eb, t\u00eb krijonim familje dhe t\u00eb nderonim partin\u00eb. I ke ruajtur ti k\u00ebto q\u00ebllime p\u00ebr familjen t\u00ebnde?N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 20-vje\u00e7are babai m\u00eb tha \u201cdo martohesh\u201c. M\u00eb kishin gjetur nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 16-vje\u00e7are nga nj\u00eb fshat aty pran\u00eb Peqinit. U martuam. B\u00ebm\u00eb nj\u00eb dasm\u00eb jo t\u00eb madhe ku festuam me familjar\u00eb dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrm.Krijimi i familjes \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb bukura. Mentaliteti nuk na e lejonte q\u00eb t\u00eb kishim dob\u00ebsi ndaj gruas dhe ta shprehim at\u00eb. Nuk ishim shum\u00eb t\u00eb hapur me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. E gjith\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia n\u00eb \u00e7ift ishte pun\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar nj\u00eb familje dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb ushqyer f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb. Nga martesa kemi shtat\u00eb f\u00ebmije, pes\u00eb vajza dhe dy djem. Sot, fal\u00eb zotit, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb lumtur n\u00eb familjet e tyre. Pes\u00eb vajza! A nuk ishte lindja e djemve k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia m\u00eb e madhe e familjeve tona?(Qesh) F\u00ebmij\u00ebn e par\u00eb e kemi vajz\u00eb, m\u00eb pas nj\u00eb djal\u00eb, tri vajza t\u00eb tjera dh\u00eb n\u00eb fund vjen prap\u00eb djal\u00eb. E para nj\u00ebher\u00eb shtat\u00ebzanin\u00eb e gruas e mora vesh kur ishte disa muajshe, sepse ishte turp q\u00eb n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb flisnim p\u00ebr k\u00ebto. Ishte krenari e madhe q\u00eb do b\u00ebhesha baba. Ishte vajz\u00eb e para, por nuk e mohoj, doja t\u00eb ishte djal\u00eb. Kur familjes son\u00eb iu shtuan tri vajza nj\u00ebra pas tjetr\u00ebs, tek shoq\u00ebria krijohej p\u00ebrshtypja se kjo nuk ishte normale, se kishte di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk shkonte tek gruaja ime. Por e kaluam sepse nuk deshi shum\u00eb dhe f\u00ebmija yn\u00eb i fundit q\u00eb erdhi n\u00eb jet\u00eb ishte djal\u00eb. Mund t\u00eb quhet familje e madhe kjo. Po si ndaheshin detyrat brenda jush p\u00ebr rritjen dhe shkollimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve?N\u00eb fakt v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb filluan shum\u00eb her\u00ebt sepse jetonim t\u00eb gjith\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt me motrat dhe v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit e mi. Duke qen\u00eb se un\u00eb isha i pari q\u00eb u martova, m\u00eb dhan\u00eb nj\u00eb dhom\u00eb brenda sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. M\u00eb pas me shum\u00eb sakrifica, bashk\u00eb me gruan, arrit\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtonim edhe nj\u00eb dhom\u00eb tjet\u00ebr ku mund t\u00eb kishim vend t\u00eb gjith\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb krevat. Mund\u00ebsit\u00eb ekonomike ishin t\u00eb vogla. Na duheshe t\u00eb punonim dit\u00eb e nat\u00eb, gruaja n\u00eb ferm\u00eb me bag\u00ebtit\u00eb, un\u00eb me nj\u00eb karroc\u00eb me kal\u00eb shp\u00ebrndaja qum\u00ebsht n\u00eb zon\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrsa f\u00ebmij\u00ebt rrisnin nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. P\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe e ka pasur vajza e par\u00eb. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb kujdesur p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb.Me shum\u00eb sakrifica arrit\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u2018iu jepnim f\u00ebmij\u00ebve shkollimin 8-vje\u00e7ar. Peng e kam q\u00eb nuk munda t\u2018iu ofroja m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Dy nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt kan\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb dalluar n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, por nuk kisha asnj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi ekonomike. Ato pak bursa q\u00eb shp\u00ebrndaheshin n\u00eb zon\u00ebn ton\u00eb nuk mund\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u2018i fitonin. E nd\u00ebrsa sot je k\u00ebtu dhe numuron m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 60 vjet martes\u00eb, mendon se pasja e nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb bashkuar dhe t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe si pasoj\u00eb e mentalitetit dhe koh\u00ebs kur keni jetuar?N\u00ebse do q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb them di\u00e7ka q\u00eb un\u00eb e mendoj v\u00ebrtet, \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb ne kemi jetuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb kur gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb prisheshin i rregullonim dhe nuk i hidhnim. 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