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Marius Merhori | 02.02.2019 | nyje.al<\/strong><\/span><\/p>

Udh\u00ebtim n\u00eb t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn
<\/em><\/strong><\/span>N\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb titull \u201cUdh\u00ebtim n\u00eb t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn\u201d, po botojm\u00eb nj\u00eb cik\u00ebl shkrimesh dhe bisedash nga disa t\u00eb rinj nga qytete t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb q\u00eb aspirojn\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhen gazetar\u00eb. Jan\u00eb realizuar me prind\u00ebrit, gjysh\u00ebrit dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit e tyre me q\u00ebllim njohjen e jet\u00ebs n\u00eb rreth t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb familjar po edhe njohjen e jet\u00ebs shoq\u00ebrore p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb shekullit t\u00eb kaluar. Si jetonin apo mbijetonin njer\u00ebzit tan\u00eb; si dashuroheshin apo detyroheshin t\u00eb zgjidhnin njeriun e jet\u00ebs; si e g\u00ebzonin jet\u00ebn dhe si i p\u00ebrballonin goditjet e saj; si ishin t\u00eb ndara rolet n\u00eb familje, dhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri sa t\u00eb varf\u00ebr aq edhe t\u00eb kontrolluar si\u00e7 ishte shoq\u00ebria shqiptare n\u00eb vitet 1945-1990?<\/em><\/span>
Jan\u00eb rr\u00ebfime q\u00eb iu tregojn\u00eb t\u00eb rinjve se e shkuara e paraardh\u00ebsve, n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb apo n\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen e secilit dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen e nj\u00eb vendi t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb.<\/em><\/span><\/p>

Nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb partizani martohet me djalin e nj\u00eb burokrati dhe krijohet nj\u00eb familje me jet\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00eb e t\u00eb zakonshme n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e komunizmit<\/strong><\/span>
\u00a0<\/strong><\/span>
Kujtime t\u00eb \u00ebmbla nga vitet e zymta
<\/strong><\/span>Pas luft\u00ebs s\u00eb dyt\u00eb bot\u00ebrore n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri u instalua nj\u00eb regjim diktatorial n\u00ebn drejtimin e Enver Hoxh\u00ebs. Pavar\u00ebsisht kufizimeve ekstreme q\u00eb provon qytetari i nj\u00eb shteti t\u00eb till\u00eb, pavar\u00ebsisht mungesave dhe mohimit t\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb drejtave, ka rr\u00ebfime njer\u00ebzore q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb nj\u00eb an\u00eb tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb jet\u00ebs n\u00eb at\u00eb epok\u00eb. Gjyshja ime ma dha k\u00ebt\u00eb mund\u00ebsi. Myrvete Merhori quhet. Sapo ka mbushur 73 vite. \u00cbsht\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb e kat\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebve dhe e shum\u00eb nip\u00ebrve e mbesave. Ka punuar p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb n\u00eb Fabrik\u00ebn e Letr\u00ebs (Reparti i Zbardhjes) n\u00eb Durr\u00ebs. Por gjat\u00eb bised\u00ebs me t\u00eb zbulova shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra rreth asaj periudhe q\u00eb p\u00ebr shumic\u00ebn konsiderohen \u201cvite zymta\u201d. Ishin v\u00ebrtet?<\/span><\/p>

N\u00ebna, si e mban mend f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb dhe periudh\u00ebn e par\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs t\u00ebnde?<\/strong><\/span>
N\u00eb fakt f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb e kam kaluar shum\u00eb bukur. Sht\u00ebpia ime ishte sht\u00ebpi partizan\u00ebsh dhe ne g\u00ebzonim respekt n\u00eb fshat e kishim shum\u00eb privilegje. Por pengu m\u00eb i madh \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb nuk dola nuse nga sht\u00ebpia e tim eti, pasi gjyshi yt e kishte nj\u00eb martes\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb dhe ne nuk mund\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebnim das\u00ebm. Ende kur e kujtoj sot e k\u00ebsaj dite q\u00eb kan\u00eb kaluar pes\u00ebdhjet\u00eb e kusur vite, m\u00eb mbushen syt\u00eb me lot dhe prekem.<\/span><\/p>


\"\"<\/span> Myrvete Merhori n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb re<\/span><\/p>

Si u njohe ti me gjyshin?<\/strong><\/span>
Ku ka pas njohje n\u00eb koh\u00ebn ton\u00eb mor bir?! Gjyshi yt ka qen\u00eb i premtuar q\u00eb n\u00eb djep, por kur arrit\u00ebn mosh\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u2019u martuar me gruan q\u00eb prind\u00ebrit i kishin caktuar, kuptoi q\u00eb ajo vuante nga skleroza dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye u nda. Xhaxhai im kishte njohje me nj\u00eb kush\u00ebririn e gjyshit dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye ai erdhi tek prind\u00ebrit e mi p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar dor\u00ebn. Gjyshi yt vinte nga nj\u00eb familje bejler\u00ebsh dhe nuk ishte shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb q\u00eb babai im ta bekonte k\u00ebt\u00eb fejes\u00eb dhe vendos\u00ebn t\u00eb m\u00eb martonin. Por gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj kohe ndodhi nj\u00eb gj\u00eb shum\u00eb interesante. Familja ime e mori vesh q\u00eb gjyshi yt ka qen\u00eb i martuar m\u00eb par\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye d\u00ebshironin q\u00eb ta prishnin k\u00ebt\u00eb lidhje. Por un\u00eb refuzova pasi vija nga periferia e qytetit dhe i kisha idet\u00eb e qarta p\u00ebr t\u2019u larguar prej saj, por gjithashtu kisha frik\u00ebn e balt\u00ebs q\u00eb do t\u00eb hidhej mbi emrin tim n\u00ebse do t\u00eb prishja fejes\u00ebn me t\u00eb. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye nuk pranova, madje i vendosa dhe ultimatum prind\u00ebrve ose m\u00eb martoni me at\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb fejuat ose un\u00eb nuk do martohem kurr\u00eb dhe k\u00ebshtu nuk pranova t\u00eb ndahesha p\u00ebr tij. Me th\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn edhe m\u00eb p\u00eblqente pak sepse ai ishte\u00a0 shum\u00eb simpatik.<\/span><\/p>

\u00a0<\/strong>Si e p\u00ebrjetuat kalimin nga fshati n\u00eb qytet dhe a u ambjentuat me jet\u00ebn e re q\u00eb ju priste?<\/strong><\/span>
E kisha pak t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb n\u00eb fillim. Gjyshi yt ishte f\u00ebmija i madh, kishte nj\u00eb v\u00eblla dhe nj\u00eb mot\u00ebr. N\u00ebn\u00ebn e kishte t\u00eb paralizuar p\u00ebr vite t\u00eb t\u00ebra dhe ajo sht\u00ebpi kishte nevoj\u00eb v\u00ebrtet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb sht\u00ebpie. M\u00eb duhej t\u00eb kujdesesha p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, p\u00ebr kunet\u00ebrit q\u00eb i kisha t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl n\u00eb mosh\u00eb, vjehrr\u00ebn q\u00eb regjej n\u00eb shtrat dhe e kishte t\u00eb nevojshme nj\u00eb sh\u00ebrbim t\u00eb specializuar dhe donte shum\u00eb p\u00ebrkushtim. Por edhe un\u00eb vija nga nj\u00eb familje e madhe, ndaj e mora situat\u00ebn shpejt n\u00eb dor\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr u ktheva n\u00eb nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb sht\u00ebpie t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>

\u00a0<\/strong>Po muaj mjalti kishe b\u00ebr\u00eb me gjyshin?<\/strong><\/span>
\u00a0<\/strong>U pikaaa! Ku kishte muaj mjalti at\u00ebhere mor djal\u00eb! U martuam, dola me gjyshin p\u00ebr nj\u00eb akullore dhe ajo qe e gjith\u00eb dasma, muaji i mjaltit dhe gjith\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr.<\/span><\/p>

Si je ndjer\u00eb kur u b\u00ebre n\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb?<\/strong><\/span>
N\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb jam b\u00ebr\u00eb me babain t\u00ebnd. Nuk kishte g\u00ebzim m\u00eb t\u00eb madh. E linda me shum\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi, madje rrezikoi q\u00eb t\u00eb humbiste jet\u00ebn pasi lindi n\u00ebn pesh\u00eb. Atij i vendos\u00ebm emrin e gjyshit t\u00eb tij dhe q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e donin, pasi st\u00ebrgjyshi yt ka vdekur shum\u00eb i ri. Kur shikonin babain t\u00ebnd kujtonin at\u00eb. M\u00eb pas linda dhe tre f\u00ebmij\u00eb por at\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrjetova me babain t\u00ebnd nuk e p\u00ebrjetova me asnj\u00eb prej tyre.<\/span><\/p>

Jetes\u00ebn si e p\u00ebrballonit?<\/strong><\/span>
E kishim pak t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb mor bir. Punonim n\u00eb Uzin\u00ebn e Letr\u00ebs, un\u00eb n\u00eb Repartin e Zbardhjes, nd\u00ebrsa gjyshi yt ishte p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs turni po n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb repart. E kisha pak t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb sepse kishim kat\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe vjehrr\u00ebn q\u00eb ishte e paralizuar dhe kishte nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr p\u00ebrkujdesje. Ishte nj\u00eb sektor tek Zbardhja ku puna ishte vet\u00ebm 4 or\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes her\u00ebt dhe mbaronte. I thosha shpesh gjyshit t\u00ebnd m\u00eb kalo n\u00eb at\u00eb sektor, jo dhe jo ai. Ka qen\u00eb keq mbas Enverit. Duke par\u00eb situat\u00ebn thash\u00eb ta provoj vet\u00eb. Shkova tek zyra e kryeinxhinieres. Ajo m\u00eb pa shum\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitur dhe m\u00eb pyeti se \u00e7far\u00eb kisha. I shpjegova gjith\u00e7ka dhe i hapa zemr\u00ebn prej n\u00ebne me t\u00eb gjitha brengat q\u00eb kisha. Vasilika quhej kryeinxhiniereja. Ajo u p\u00ebrlot dhe m\u00eb tha q\u00eb nes\u00ebr do t\u00eb fillosh pun\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb sektor. Kjo m\u00eb leht\u00ebsoi pak\u00ebz.<\/span>
P\u00ebr ushqimet vuanim pak. Kishte raste q\u00eb me nj\u00eb gjell\u00eb shtynim edhe dy dit\u00eb, por prap\u00ebseprap\u00eb ishim t\u00eb lumtur. Na mungojn\u00eb shum\u00eb ato vite.<\/span><\/p>

\u00a0<\/strong>M\u00eb b\u00ebn p\u00ebrshtypje, keni vuajtur dhe keni qen\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur?<\/strong><\/span>
Po more bir. N\u00eb ato vite ekzistonte gjith\u00e7ka: respekti, dashuria, harmonia, besnik\u00ebria, afrimiteti, virtyte q\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e sotme po humbasin dita-dit\u00ebs. Tek rruga ku sot \u00ebsht\u00eb sht\u00ebpia jon\u00eb bashkoheshim me shoqet dhe t\u00eb gjitha bashk\u00eb shkonim p\u00ebr n\u00eb pun\u00eb. Mblidheshim n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb gjith\u00eb si fis bashk\u00eb, tregonim histori, darkonim me aq sa kishim dhe kalonim shum\u00eb bukur. Si kolektiv pune b\u00ebnim ekskursione, mbr\u00ebmje vall\u00ebzimi. Ah mor bir, \u00e7far\u00eb nuk b\u00ebnim! Jo si ju q\u00eb t\u00eb rrini gjith dit\u00ebn me at\u00eb telefon n\u00eb dor\u00eb q\u00eb mallkuar qoft\u00eb ai q\u00eb e shpiku!<\/span><\/p>

A ju dilte rroga q\u00eb merrnit n\u00eb fabrik\u00eb?<\/strong><\/span>
\u00a0<\/strong>T\u00eb dilte mor bir, me v\u00ebshitr\u00ebsi t\u00eb madhe po t\u00eb dilte. Gjyshi yt\u00a0 ka qen\u00eb shum\u00eb komunist dhe ideali i partis\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ka qen\u00eb par\u00ebsor. Kishte shum\u00eb familje q\u00eb jetonin shum\u00eb her\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb se ne por ai nuk pranonte q\u00eb ne t\u00eb ngriheshim n\u00eb detyr\u00eb ose t\u00eb g\u00ebzonim t\u00eb drejta t\u00eb tjera. Nj\u00eb fjali kishte n\u00eb goj\u00eb: \u201cEnveri t\u00eb fut n\u00eb burg\u201d.<\/span><\/p>

\u00c7far\u00eb fabrikash ka pasur qyteti yn\u00eb, \u00e7far\u00eb pun\u00ebsh b\u00ebnin njer\u00ebzit?<\/strong><\/span>
Fabrika e qelqit \u00e7far\u00eb nuk prodhonte. Gota ku kishin t\u00eb mbishkruar emrin, peshq n\u00eb form\u00ebn e dekorit, globa, gota t\u00eb formave t\u00eb ndryshme dhe t\u00eb pasura me shum\u00eb dekoracion. Fabrika e gozhd\u00ebs ka pas\u00eb prodhuar bulona, tela me gjemba, vida e shum\u00eb e shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tjera. Fabrika e letr\u00ebs, prodhonte let\u00ebr p\u00ebr gazeta, artikuj shkollor\u00eb, tabak\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrsa leshpunuesja prodhonte qilima me vegj\u00eb. E ve\u00e7anta e vegj\u00ebs s\u00eb Kavaj\u00ebs, ndryshe nga ajo e qytetit t\u00eb Kor\u00e7\u00ebs dhe Kruj\u00ebs q\u00eb punimin e kishte n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb horizontale, qyteti yn\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e t\u00eb punuarit e kishte vertikale. Kjo krijonte at\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00ebn e saj.<\/span><\/p>

T\u00eb kujtohet ndonj\u00eb histori qesharake nga ato vite?<\/strong><\/span>
Kur vdiq Enver Hoxha n\u00eb vitin 1985… Njer\u00ebzit qanin ngado sepse vdiq shoku Enver, ul\u00ebrinin plakat me nap\u00eb n\u00eb kok\u00eb, vajzat e reja qanin me d\u00ebnes\u00eb se u largua nga jeta Enveri. Me siguri as p\u00ebr t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit e tyre nuk kan\u00eb qar\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>

\u00a0<\/strong>\u00c7far\u00eb ka pasur sipas teje t\u00eb mir\u00eb ajo koh\u00eb?<\/strong><\/span>
Ajo koh\u00eb ka pasur t\u00eb mir\u00eb, mor i vogli im, tri gj\u00ebra: sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsin\u00eb, arsimin dhe rendin. Enveri kishte \u00e7\u2019kishte tek n\u00ebna analfabetizmin e zhduku edhe n\u00eb zonat m\u00eb t\u00eb thella t\u00eb Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb. Ne vizitoheshim dhe nuk paguanim asnj\u00eb para p\u00ebr vizitat apo p\u00ebr ila\u00e7et. Nd\u00ebrsa p\u00ebr rendin nuk kishim frik\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebviznim nat\u00ebn, pasi nuk t\u00eb luante askush. Jo si sot q\u00eb pupupu \u00e7far\u00eb dite ka ardhur! Nuk e d\u00ebgjon televizorin ti, vet\u00ebm vrasje dhe krime ka!<\/span>
Ne me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb kemi qen\u00eb n\u00eb diktatur\u00eb por tani n\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb jemi? Edhe tani n\u00eb diktatur\u00eb jemi. Lejohet liria e fjal\u00ebs por mohohet n\u00eb nj\u00eb form\u00eb ose nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Mir\u00ebqenia nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb se ka ndryshuar shum\u00eb: fukarallik n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb, fukarallik tani. Tani ka dy gj\u00ebra m\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqija: ne t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb kemi pas qen\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa tani shumica jan\u00eb pa pun\u00eb, kafenet\u00eb jan\u00eb plot me njer\u00ebz q\u00eb nuk punojn\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrsa t\u00eb dyt\u00ebn ta thash\u00eb dhe pak m\u00eb par\u00eb. N\u00eb koh\u00ebn ton\u00eb ekzistonte respekti, dashuria, mikpritja q\u00eb tani po humbasin dita-dit\u00ebs.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Marius Merhori | 02.02.2019 | nyje.al Udh\u00ebtim n\u00eb t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebnN\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb titull \u201cUdh\u00ebtim n\u00eb t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn\u201d, po botojm\u00eb nj\u00eb cik\u00ebl shkrimesh dhe bisedash nga disa t\u00eb rinj nga qytete t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb q\u00eb aspirojn\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhen gazetar\u00eb. Jan\u00eb realizuar me prind\u00ebrit, gjysh\u00ebrit dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit e tyre me q\u00ebllim njohjen e jet\u00ebs n\u00eb rreth t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb familjar po edhe njohjen e jet\u00ebs shoq\u00ebrore p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb shekullit t\u00eb kaluar. Si jetonin apo mbijetonin njer\u00ebzit tan\u00eb; si dashuroheshin apo detyroheshin t\u00eb zgjidhnin njeriun e jet\u00ebs; si e g\u00ebzonin jet\u00ebn dhe si i p\u00ebrballonin goditjet e saj; si ishin t\u00eb ndara rolet n\u00eb familje, dhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri sa t\u00eb varf\u00ebr aq edhe t\u00eb kontrolluar si\u00e7 ishte shoq\u00ebria shqiptare n\u00eb vitet 1945-1990?Jan\u00eb rr\u00ebfime q\u00eb iu tregojn\u00eb t\u00eb rinjve se e shkuara e paraardh\u00ebsve, n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb apo n\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen e secilit dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen e nj\u00eb vendi t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb. Nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb partizani martohet me djalin e nj\u00eb burokrati dhe krijohet nj\u00eb familje me jet\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00eb e t\u00eb zakonshme n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e komunizmit\u00a0Kujtime t\u00eb \u00ebmbla nga vitet e zymtaPas luft\u00ebs s\u00eb dyt\u00eb bot\u00ebrore n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri u instalua nj\u00eb regjim diktatorial n\u00ebn drejtimin e Enver Hoxh\u00ebs. Pavar\u00ebsisht kufizimeve ekstreme q\u00eb provon qytetari i nj\u00eb shteti t\u00eb till\u00eb, pavar\u00ebsisht mungesave dhe mohimit t\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb drejtave, ka rr\u00ebfime njer\u00ebzore q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb nj\u00eb an\u00eb tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb jet\u00ebs n\u00eb at\u00eb epok\u00eb. Gjyshja ime ma dha k\u00ebt\u00eb mund\u00ebsi. Myrvete Merhori quhet. Sapo ka mbushur 73 vite. \u00cbsht\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb e kat\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebve dhe e shum\u00eb nip\u00ebrve e mbesave. Ka punuar p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb n\u00eb Fabrik\u00ebn e Letr\u00ebs (Reparti i Zbardhjes) n\u00eb Durr\u00ebs. Por gjat\u00eb bised\u00ebs me t\u00eb zbulova shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra rreth asaj periudhe q\u00eb p\u00ebr shumic\u00ebn konsiderohen \u201cvite zymta\u201d. Ishin v\u00ebrtet? N\u00ebna, si e mban mend f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb dhe periudh\u00ebn e par\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs t\u00ebnde?N\u00eb fakt f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb e kam kaluar shum\u00eb bukur. Sht\u00ebpia ime ishte sht\u00ebpi partizan\u00ebsh dhe ne g\u00ebzonim respekt n\u00eb fshat e kishim shum\u00eb privilegje. Por pengu m\u00eb i madh \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb nuk dola nuse nga sht\u00ebpia e tim eti, pasi gjyshi yt e kishte nj\u00eb martes\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb dhe ne nuk mund\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebnim das\u00ebm. Ende kur e kujtoj sot e k\u00ebsaj dite q\u00eb kan\u00eb kaluar pes\u00ebdhjet\u00eb e kusur vite, m\u00eb mbushen syt\u00eb me lot dhe prekem. Myrvete Merhori n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb re Si u njohe ti me gjyshin?Ku ka pas njohje n\u00eb koh\u00ebn ton\u00eb mor bir?! Gjyshi yt ka qen\u00eb i premtuar q\u00eb n\u00eb djep, por kur arrit\u00ebn mosh\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u2019u martuar me gruan q\u00eb prind\u00ebrit i kishin caktuar, kuptoi q\u00eb ajo vuante nga skleroza dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye u nda. Xhaxhai im kishte njohje me nj\u00eb kush\u00ebririn e gjyshit dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye ai erdhi tek prind\u00ebrit e mi p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar dor\u00ebn. Gjyshi yt vinte nga nj\u00eb familje bejler\u00ebsh dhe nuk ishte shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb q\u00eb babai im ta bekonte k\u00ebt\u00eb fejes\u00eb dhe vendos\u00ebn t\u00eb m\u00eb martonin. Por gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj kohe ndodhi nj\u00eb gj\u00eb shum\u00eb interesante. Familja ime e mori vesh q\u00eb gjyshi yt ka qen\u00eb i martuar m\u00eb par\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye d\u00ebshironin q\u00eb ta prishnin k\u00ebt\u00eb lidhje. Por un\u00eb refuzova pasi vija nga periferia e qytetit dhe i kisha idet\u00eb e qarta p\u00ebr t\u2019u larguar prej saj, por gjithashtu kisha frik\u00ebn e balt\u00ebs q\u00eb do t\u00eb hidhej mbi emrin tim n\u00ebse do t\u00eb prishja fejes\u00ebn me t\u00eb. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye nuk pranova, madje i vendosa dhe ultimatum prind\u00ebrve ose m\u00eb martoni me at\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb fejuat ose un\u00eb nuk do martohem kurr\u00eb dhe k\u00ebshtu nuk pranova t\u00eb ndahesha p\u00ebr tij. Me th\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn edhe m\u00eb p\u00eblqente pak sepse ai ishte\u00a0 shum\u00eb simpatik. \u00a0Si e p\u00ebrjetuat kalimin nga fshati n\u00eb qytet dhe a u ambjentuat me jet\u00ebn e re q\u00eb ju priste?E kisha pak t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb n\u00eb fillim. Gjyshi yt ishte f\u00ebmija i madh, kishte nj\u00eb v\u00eblla dhe nj\u00eb mot\u00ebr. N\u00ebn\u00ebn e kishte t\u00eb paralizuar p\u00ebr vite t\u00eb t\u00ebra dhe ajo sht\u00ebpi kishte nevoj\u00eb v\u00ebrtet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb sht\u00ebpie. M\u00eb duhej t\u00eb kujdesesha p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, p\u00ebr kunet\u00ebrit q\u00eb i kisha t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl n\u00eb mosh\u00eb, vjehrr\u00ebn q\u00eb regjej n\u00eb shtrat dhe e kishte t\u00eb nevojshme nj\u00eb sh\u00ebrbim t\u00eb specializuar dhe donte shum\u00eb p\u00ebrkushtim. Por edhe un\u00eb vija nga nj\u00eb familje e madhe, ndaj e mora situat\u00ebn shpejt n\u00eb dor\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr u ktheva n\u00eb nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb sht\u00ebpie t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. \u00a0Po muaj mjalti kishe b\u00ebr\u00eb me gjyshin?\u00a0U pikaaa! Ku kishte muaj mjalti at\u00ebhere mor djal\u00eb! U martuam, dola me gjyshin p\u00ebr nj\u00eb akullore dhe ajo qe e gjith\u00eb dasma, muaji i mjaltit dhe gjith\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr. Si je ndjer\u00eb kur u b\u00ebre n\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb?N\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb jam b\u00ebr\u00eb me babain t\u00ebnd. Nuk kishte g\u00ebzim m\u00eb t\u00eb madh. E linda me shum\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi, madje rrezikoi q\u00eb t\u00eb humbiste jet\u00ebn pasi lindi n\u00ebn pesh\u00eb. Atij i vendos\u00ebm emrin e gjyshit t\u00eb tij dhe q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e donin, pasi st\u00ebrgjyshi yt ka vdekur shum\u00eb i ri. Kur shikonin babain t\u00ebnd kujtonin at\u00eb. M\u00eb pas linda dhe tre f\u00ebmij\u00eb por at\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrjetova me babain t\u00ebnd nuk e p\u00ebrjetova me asnj\u00eb prej tyre. Jetes\u00ebn si e p\u00ebrballonit?E kishim pak t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb mor bir. Punonim n\u00eb Uzin\u00ebn e Letr\u00ebs, un\u00eb n\u00eb Repartin e Zbardhjes, nd\u00ebrsa gjyshi yt ishte p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs turni po n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb repart. E kisha pak t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb sepse kishim kat\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe vjehrr\u00ebn q\u00eb ishte e paralizuar dhe kishte nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr p\u00ebrkujdesje. Ishte nj\u00eb sektor tek Zbardhja ku puna ishte vet\u00ebm 4 or\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes her\u00ebt dhe mbaronte. I thosha shpesh gjyshit t\u00ebnd m\u00eb kalo n\u00eb at\u00eb sektor, jo dhe jo ai. Ka qen\u00eb keq mbas Enverit. Duke par\u00eb situat\u00ebn thash\u00eb ta provoj vet\u00eb. Shkova tek zyra e kryeinxhinieres. Ajo m\u00eb pa shum\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitur dhe m\u00eb pyeti se \u00e7far\u00eb kisha. I shpjegova gjith\u00e7ka dhe i hapa zemr\u00ebn prej n\u00ebne me t\u00eb gjitha brengat q\u00eb kisha. Vasilika quhej kryeinxhiniereja. Ajo u p\u00ebrlot dhe m\u00eb tha q\u00eb nes\u00ebr do t\u00eb fillosh pun\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb sektor. Kjo m\u00eb leht\u00ebsoi pak\u00ebz.P\u00ebr ushqimet vuanim pak. 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