{"id":17664,"date":"2022-10-27T16:44:57","date_gmt":"2022-10-27T14:44:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nyje.al\/?p=17664"},"modified":"2024-09-27T12:16:37","modified_gmt":"2024-09-27T10:16:37","slug":"mit-vegjelie-pjesa-e-dyte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nyje.al\/sq\/mit-vegjelie-pjesa-e-dyte\/","title":{"rendered":"Mit vegj\u00eblie (pjesa e dyt\u00eb)"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Antonela Pepkolaj | 27.10.2022 | nyje.al\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>

Pjesa e dyt\u00eb<\/strong><\/span><\/p>

\"Fotografi<\/span>Gjyshen nuk e ka m\u00ebsuar njeri t\u00eb jet\u00eb krenare, as egoiste, p\u00ebrkundrazi, por e kan\u00eb m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb jet\u00eb e drejt\u00eb. N\u00eb mundin e saj p\u00ebr t\u00eb q\u00ebnduar e drejt\u00eb, ka zhvilluar nj\u00eb forc\u00eb karakteri m\u00eb t\u00eb ashp\u00ebr se ajo e njer\u00ebzve vetjak\u00eb. N\u00eb mendjen e saj, n\u00ebse e nderon jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, natyra t\u00eb nderon ty. K\u00ebshtu e gjykonin fshatar\u00ebt vendimin e saj p\u00ebr t\u00eb braktisur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e vet, si di\u00e7ka q\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb vet\u00ebm njer\u00ebzit pa shpirt dhe t\u00eb ashp\u00ebr. Si mund t\u2019ia mbath\u00eb nj\u00eb grua dhe t\u00eb\u00a0 braktis\u00eb kat\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb mitur? Pse burri ia dredh ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebkat. Fundja, ai kujdeset p\u00ebr ta dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb rehat se krejt familjet e tjera n\u00eb fshat dhe, n\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb varf\u00ebris\u00eb ekstreme, gjendjet emocionale as nuk duhet t\u00eb diskutohen fare.<\/span><\/p>

Por gjyshja nuk ia mbathi pse kishte ndonj\u00eb zem\u00ebr t\u00eb thyer, por sepse p\u00ebr t\u00eb e gjith\u00eb situata ishte posht\u00ebruese. U mundua p\u00ebr shum\u00eb muaj ta bind\u00eb t\u00eb kthehet, por vet\u00ebm kur gjyshi i dha fjal\u00ebn p\u00ebr besnik\u00ebri, gjyshja u kthye. S\u00eb bashku pat\u00ebn edhe dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb dhe konfliktet u sheshuan, m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti sepse gjyshit nuk i shkonte mendja t\u00eb b\u00ebnte gj\u00ebra q\u00eb do e provokonin.<\/span><\/p>

Me ndryshimin e sistemeve nd\u00ebrtimi i bot\u00ebs s\u00eb re k\u00ebrkonte hara\u00e7et e veta, ashtu si\u00e7 ndodhi me ngrehin\u00ebn e komunizmit, e cila tani po shembej gradualisht dhe po merrte k\u00eb mundej me vete. Kjo n\u00eb kuptimin e par\u00eb. Blatimi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb rit pagan dhe i Dhiat\u00ebs s\u00eb vjet\u00ebr. Katolik\u00eb n\u00eb fshat besojn\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb i domosdosh\u00ebm, sepse Zoti nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i njeriut por i popullit, ndaj njeriu duhet t\u00eb vdes\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>

Nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr magazinat n\u00eb fshat u dogj, s\u00eb bashku me disa njer\u00ebz, nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr ta v\u00ebllai i gjyshit. Gjyshi rr\u00ebfen se n\u00eb varrim, Or\u00ebt i fol\u00ebn me z\u00ebrin e nj\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7menduri, a t\u00eb hutuari, si\u00e7 thon\u00eb n\u00eb gjuh\u00ebn e fshatit. I tha se do hidhen themelet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb kish\u00eb t\u00eb re, aq t\u00eb domosdoshme p\u00ebr besimtar\u00ebt. Dhe se, \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme q\u00eb dikush t\u00eb flijohej p\u00ebr themelin. Or\u00ebt k\u00ebrkuan n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha fshatrat dhe nuk gjet\u00ebn grua t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshme, pos gjyshes, e cila, n\u00eb fjal\u00ebt e njeriut q\u00eb fliste me or\u00ebt, ishte vendosur q\u00eb t\u00eb vdiste.<\/span><\/p>

Pak para se t\u00eb mbushej nj\u00eb vit nga kjo profeci, fshai ushton nga gjamt\u00a0e malit. Vaji rr\u00ebshqet prej maj\u00ebs s\u00eb malit, pran\u00eb lisit t\u00eb arr\u00ebs e drejt e n\u00eb lugin\u00eb. Gjimojn\u00eb krojet dhe fshati b\u00ebhet gati p\u00ebr mort. E parandjejn\u00eb grat\u00eb, t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb t\u00eb vetmet q\u00eb mund t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb vajin e Or\u00ebve. T\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen gjyshja vdes nga nj\u00eb kosh drithi q\u00eb i bie n\u00eb qaf\u00eb, duke i l\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb blan\u00eb t\u00eb zez\u00eb q\u00eb vjen e ngjan prap\u00eb m\u00eb e ftoht\u00eb se l\u00ebkura e bardh\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>

Si\u00e7 fryma troket xhamin e b\u00ebhet avull, ashtu edhe gjyshja iku, por nuk humbi. Dy f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj m\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl e shohin n\u00eb kopsht dhe rendin ta p\u00ebrqafojn\u00eb, t\u00eb dy bien dhe nj\u00ebri \u00e7an ballin e tjetri dor\u00ebn, shenja t\u00eb cilat u kan\u00eb ngelur edhe sot. T\u00eb tjer\u00eb e kan\u00eb par\u00eb her\u00eb pas here n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, i k\u00ebshillon, i drejton apo thjesht u buz\u00ebqesh. E mbajn\u00eb mend si fjal\u00ebpak\u00eb, por me mimika t\u00eb gjalla, m\u00eb shum\u00eb fliste me trupin se me gjuh\u00ebn. Tash flet me k\u00ebmbanoren, jehon\u00ebn e s\u00eb cil\u00ebs t\u00eb diel\u00ebn e par\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7do muaji, disa e d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb me ndjenja nostalgjie.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Antonela Pepkolaj | 27.10.2022 | nyje.al\u00a0 Pjesa e dyt\u00eb Gjyshen nuk e ka m\u00ebsuar njeri t\u00eb jet\u00eb krenare, as egoiste, p\u00ebrkundrazi, por e kan\u00eb m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb jet\u00eb e drejt\u00eb. N\u00eb mundin e saj p\u00ebr t\u00eb q\u00ebnduar e drejt\u00eb, ka zhvilluar nj\u00eb forc\u00eb karakteri m\u00eb t\u00eb ashp\u00ebr se ajo e njer\u00ebzve vetjak\u00eb. N\u00eb mendjen e saj, n\u00ebse e nderon jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, natyra t\u00eb nderon ty. K\u00ebshtu e gjykonin fshatar\u00ebt vendimin e saj p\u00ebr t\u00eb braktisur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e vet, si di\u00e7ka q\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb vet\u00ebm njer\u00ebzit pa shpirt dhe t\u00eb ashp\u00ebr. Si mund t\u2019ia mbath\u00eb nj\u00eb grua dhe t\u00eb\u00a0 braktis\u00eb kat\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb mitur? Pse burri ia dredh ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebkat. Fundja, ai kujdeset p\u00ebr ta dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb rehat se krejt familjet e tjera n\u00eb fshat dhe, n\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb varf\u00ebris\u00eb ekstreme, gjendjet emocionale as nuk duhet t\u00eb diskutohen fare. Por gjyshja nuk ia mbathi pse kishte ndonj\u00eb zem\u00ebr t\u00eb thyer, por sepse p\u00ebr t\u00eb e gjith\u00eb situata ishte posht\u00ebruese. U mundua p\u00ebr shum\u00eb muaj ta bind\u00eb t\u00eb kthehet, por vet\u00ebm kur gjyshi i dha fjal\u00ebn p\u00ebr besnik\u00ebri, gjyshja u kthye. S\u00eb bashku pat\u00ebn edhe dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb dhe konfliktet u sheshuan, m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti sepse gjyshit nuk i shkonte mendja t\u00eb b\u00ebnte gj\u00ebra q\u00eb do e provokonin. Me ndryshimin e sistemeve nd\u00ebrtimi i bot\u00ebs s\u00eb re k\u00ebrkonte hara\u00e7et e veta, ashtu si\u00e7 ndodhi me ngrehin\u00ebn e komunizmit, e cila tani po shembej gradualisht dhe po merrte k\u00eb mundej me vete. Kjo n\u00eb kuptimin e par\u00eb. Blatimi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb rit pagan dhe i Dhiat\u00ebs s\u00eb vjet\u00ebr. Katolik\u00eb n\u00eb fshat besojn\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb i domosdosh\u00ebm, sepse Zoti nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i njeriut por i popullit, ndaj njeriu duhet t\u00eb vdes\u00eb. Nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr magazinat n\u00eb fshat u dogj, s\u00eb bashku me disa njer\u00ebz, nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr ta v\u00ebllai i gjyshit. Gjyshi rr\u00ebfen se n\u00eb varrim, Or\u00ebt i fol\u00ebn me z\u00ebrin e nj\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7menduri, a t\u00eb hutuari, si\u00e7 thon\u00eb n\u00eb gjuh\u00ebn e fshatit. I tha se do hidhen themelet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb kish\u00eb t\u00eb re, aq t\u00eb domosdoshme p\u00ebr besimtar\u00ebt. Dhe se, \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme q\u00eb dikush t\u00eb flijohej p\u00ebr themelin. Or\u00ebt k\u00ebrkuan n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha fshatrat dhe nuk gjet\u00ebn grua t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshme, pos gjyshes, e cila, n\u00eb fjal\u00ebt e njeriut q\u00eb fliste me or\u00ebt, ishte vendosur q\u00eb t\u00eb vdiste. Pak para se t\u00eb mbushej nj\u00eb vit nga kjo profeci, fshai ushton nga gjamt\u00a0e malit. Vaji rr\u00ebshqet prej maj\u00ebs s\u00eb malit, pran\u00eb lisit t\u00eb arr\u00ebs e drejt e n\u00eb lugin\u00eb. Gjimojn\u00eb krojet dhe fshati b\u00ebhet gati p\u00ebr mort. E parandjejn\u00eb grat\u00eb, t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb t\u00eb vetmet q\u00eb mund t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb vajin e Or\u00ebve. T\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen gjyshja vdes nga nj\u00eb kosh drithi q\u00eb i bie n\u00eb qaf\u00eb, duke i l\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb blan\u00eb t\u00eb zez\u00eb q\u00eb vjen e ngjan prap\u00eb m\u00eb e ftoht\u00eb se l\u00ebkura e bardh\u00eb. Si\u00e7 fryma troket xhamin e b\u00ebhet avull, ashtu edhe gjyshja iku, por nuk humbi. Dy f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj m\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl e shohin n\u00eb kopsht dhe rendin ta p\u00ebrqafojn\u00eb, t\u00eb dy bien dhe nj\u00ebri \u00e7an ballin e tjetri dor\u00ebn, shenja t\u00eb cilat u kan\u00eb ngelur edhe sot. T\u00eb tjer\u00eb e kan\u00eb par\u00eb her\u00eb pas here n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, i k\u00ebshillon, i drejton apo thjesht u buz\u00ebqesh. E mbajn\u00eb mend si fjal\u00ebpak\u00eb, por me mimika t\u00eb gjalla, m\u00eb shum\u00eb fliste me trupin se me gjuh\u00ebn. Tash flet me k\u00ebmbanoren, jehon\u00ebn e s\u00eb cil\u00ebs t\u00eb diel\u00ebn e par\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7do muaji, disa e d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb me ndjenja 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