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Antonela Pepkolaj | 26.09.2022 | nyje.al\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>

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Himeni dhe heshtja p\u00ebr grat\u00eb, n\u00eb pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb rasteve, jane bileta p\u00ebr nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb mbushur me abuzime t\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha formave. Dhe, nd\u00ebrsa ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb me vullnet t\u00eb lir\u00eb, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb p\u00ebr hesap t\u00eb familjes, vajzat e reja zgjedhin t\u2019ia falin rinin\u00eb dhe koh\u00ebn e tyre, nj\u00eb stili t\u00eb caktuar jetese, m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa nj\u00eb personi, kjo p\u00ebrb\u00ebn e th\u00ebn\u00eb me nj\u00eb fjali, \u00a0nj\u00eb histori klasike dashurie n\u00eb qytetin ton\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>

Klotilda ishte 18 vje\u00e7e kur u fejua me tashm\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortin e saj. P\u00ebr familjen \u00a0ishte zgjedhja m\u00eb e mire e mundshme, sepse jetonte n\u00eb Angli, duke provuar me kaq se \u00ebsht\u00eb njeri i aft\u00eb t\u00eb kujdeset p\u00ebr nj\u00eb familje. Ndon\u00ebse Klotilda pranoi, e v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb se as ajo nuk e dinte \u00e7far\u00eb donte dhe se, duke iu predikuar gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj q\u00eb burri m\u00eb i mir\u00eb\u00a0p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndar\u00eb jet\u00ebn, \u00ebsht\u00eb burri me t\u00eb cilin mund t\u00eb jesh krenar p\u00ebrball\u00eb t\u00eb njohurve t\u00eb tu, nuk rezistoi shum\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrsa tregonte dy muajt e par\u00eb t\u00eb fejes\u00ebs me nj\u00eb ndjesi qet\u00ebsie, se partneri i saj \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri i suksessh\u00ebm dhe ideali me t\u00eb cilin \u00ebsht\u00eb ushqyer, e kuptonte se nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri i paarritsh\u00ebm, i ftoht\u00eb dhe n\u00eb thelb, i huaj.<\/span><\/p>

Mendonte se kjo distanc\u00eb humbi muajt e par\u00eb t\u00eb martes\u00ebs, duke ngat\u00ebrruar bab\u00ebzin\u00eb e tij seksuale me ndjenja p\u00ebrkujdesi dhe interesi ndaj saj. Kishin nd\u00ebrtuar intimitet dhe, n\u00eb mendjen e saj \u00ebsht\u00eb krejt natyrale q\u00eb intimiteti t\u00eb nderohet me besnik\u00ebri dhe reciprocitet. Se p\u00ebrndryshe as q\u00eb do t\u00eb ekzistonte n\u00ebse t\u00eb dy nuk do t\u00eb donin t\u2019i q\u00ebndronin p\u00ebrkrah nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. Gjithsesi, Klotilda nuk e di, ndoshta prej diferenc\u00ebs q\u00eb kan\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00eb, ndoshta se ai ka l\u00ebvizur e udh\u00ebtuar goxha nd\u00ebrsa ajo jo, se eksperiencat seksuale t\u00eb t\u00eb shoqit t\u00eb saj, jan\u00eb t\u00eb kufizuara vet\u00ebm n\u00eb prostituta dhe gra n\u00eb mosh\u00eb. Duke mos e provuar kurr\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebn e r\u00ebnies, joshjes apo d\u00ebshir\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbrojtur dik\u00eb, ai mendonte se sapo Klotilda t\u00eb dilte nga gjendja e saj e naivitetit, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb atribut i mosh\u00ebs s\u00eb re, do t\u00eb zgjohej ndaj gjendjes s\u00eb saj t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb gjendja e frustrimit dhe, p\u00ebrball\u00eb frustrimit, dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb iluzion i braktisur.<\/span><\/p>

K\u00ebshtu duke menduar q\u00eb i ka b\u00ebr\u00eb ndonj\u00eb nder t\u00eb madh q\u00eb i ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb \u201ctitullin\u201d\u00a0bashk\u00ebshorte, q\u00eb i ka ofruar streh\u00eb, siguri, nj\u00eb familje, ai mendonte se Klotilda nuk ka m\u00eb asnj\u00eb lloj nevoje tjet\u00ebr. Shumic\u00ebn e koh\u00ebs ishte larg saj, n\u00ebp\u00ebr pun\u00eb dhe udh\u00ebtime si emigrant, koh\u00eb gjat\u00eb s\u00eb cil\u00ebs Klotilda vuan shum\u00eb. Fillimisht nga malli, se vet\u00ebkuptohet, ai \u00ebsht\u00eb larguar nga nevoja p\u00ebr t\u00eb siguruar t\u00eb ardhura familjes. Megjithat\u00eb, gradualisht Klotilda kupton, se ai e ka braktisur. I shoqi nuk i del asnj\u00ebher\u00eb p\u00ebr zot, nuk e mbron, nuk mundohet aspak ta kuptoj\u00eb, nuk i intereson q\u00eb Klotilda t\u00eb ndihet as e qet\u00eb dhe as e lumtur, duke i etiketuar ankesat e saj si p\u00ebr\u00e7artje grash, se burrat kan\u00eb problemet e v\u00ebrteta t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj bote, se Klotilda mjafton t\u00eb rrij\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe t\u00eb jet\u00eb pun\u00ebtore, ashtu si\u00e7 edhe dihej se duhej t\u00eb ishte, sepse n\u00eb marr\u00ebveshjen e tyre nuk kishte ndonj\u00eb pritshm\u00ebri tjet\u00ebr.<\/span><\/p>

Nj\u00eb rast konkret (dhe absurd). Vjehrra e Klotild\u00ebs e konsideron veten besimtare myslimane. \u00c7do dy-tre muaj blen hajmali nga nj\u00eb hoxh\u00eb, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ia jep Klotild\u00ebs me shpres\u00ebn se do t\u00eb lind\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb. Klotilda ka tashm\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl dhe nuk d\u00ebshiron m\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, por edhe sikur t\u00eb d\u00ebshironte, i shoqi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb fare n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. Gjithsesi. Klotilda e refuzon hajmalin\u00eb dhe k\u00ebrc\u00ebnon se do t\u2019i djeg\u00eb n\u00eb rast se i japin ndonj\u00eb hajmali tjet\u00ebr. Kur v\u00ebren se ia qepin fshehtas n\u00ebp\u00ebr xhepat e rrobave, vendosi t\u2019i tregoj\u00eb t\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebs, e cila i tha se \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka krejt normale, madje nj\u00eb nder q\u00eb po i b\u00ebjn\u00eb. Klotilda refuzon prap\u00eb dhe e quan vjehrr\u00ebn e vet shtrig\u00eb. Situata degradoi duke u p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb n\u00eb konflikt t\u00eb dyja familjet, her\u00eb pas here duke k\u00ebrc\u00ebnuar q\u00eb Klotilda t\u00eb kthehet te sht\u00ebpia e vajz\u00ebris\u00eb. N\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb kjo t\u00eb mos ndodh\u00eb, prind\u00ebrit e Klotild\u00ebs i sugjerojn\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb mos b\u00ebj\u00eb m\u00eb z\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb pun\u00eb. Gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebsaj kohe i shoqi i Klotild\u00ebs ka refuzuar t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshihet fare. Dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb nga ngjarjet q\u00eb Klotilda e cil\u00ebson si nxirje jete.<\/span><\/p>

Duke par\u00eb se ndodhet krejt vet\u00ebm, p\u00ebr t\u00eb rritur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrballuar familjen e tij t\u00eb pagdhendur, Klotilda fillon t\u00eb p\u00ebr\u00e7moj\u00eb t\u00eb shoqin, familjen e tij dhe familjen e vet. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 vajz\u00ebs, asgj\u00eb nuk e motivon t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb. Ka hequr dor\u00eb nga nevoja p\u00ebr t\u00eb shprehur pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb e veta, duke toleruar \u00e7do lloj fyerje, mungese konsiderate dhe respekti, deri edhe dhun\u00eb dhe abuzim, qoft\u00eb verbale, psikologjike dhe fizike.<\/span><\/p>

Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb fajson veten, q\u00eb nuk ka shpresuar p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebrve\u00e7se t\u00eb gjej\u00eb nj\u00eb burr\u00eb t\u00eb hairit. E faj\u00ebson gjithashtu q\u00eb nuk di si ta nxjerr\u00eb veten nga kjo situat\u00eb, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e paaft\u00eb edhe t\u00eb l\u00ebviz\u00eb n\u00eb qytetin q\u00eb ka t\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebn q\u00eb jeton sepse nuk e njeh, pale t\u00eb dij\u00eb ku t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb ndihm\u00eb p\u00ebr gjendjen e saj. P\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt jeton, Klotilda nuk ka asnj\u00eb problem, p\u00ebrkundrazi, po t\u00eb d\u00ebgjonin pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb e saj do thonin se nuk ekzistojn\u00eb; n\u00eb rastin m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb do qeshnin.<\/span><\/p>

N\u00eb p\u00ebrfundim, Klotilda thot\u00eb se nuk shpreson se jeta e saj do t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb, por projekton t\u00eb gjitha \u00ebndrrat e veta tek e bija. Do ta rris\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos ket\u00eb pse t\u00eb duroj\u00eb asnj\u00eb gj\u00eb q\u00eb e b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndihet e tep\u00ebrt, e p\u00ebrjashtuar, e p\u00ebrdorur, e pad\u00ebshiruar, n\u00ebn kontrollin dhe m\u00ebshir\u00ebn e dikujt, etj. P\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e\u00a0saj, faj\u00ebson her\u00eb prind\u00ebrit, here papjekurin\u00eb e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb cil\u00ebt i ran\u00eb p\u00ebr pjes\u00eb, n\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb shumtat e rasteve faj\u00ebson veten. Nuk e kupton pse e refuzojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha modelet fem\u00ebrore q\u00eb ajo njeh, qoft\u00eb modeli i gruas \u201cp\u00ebr sht\u00ebpi\u201d, qoft\u00eb i asaj s\u00eb lir\u00ebs q\u00eb refuzon t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb kompromise, ndaj edhe ka hequr dor\u00eb nga vetvetja. Megjithat\u00eb, sidomos n\u00eb gjendjet e r\u00ebnduara, e ripyet veten se kush e ka fajin?<\/span><\/p>

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Antonela Pepkolaj | 26.09.2022 | nyje.al\u00a0 Himeni dhe heshtja p\u00ebr grat\u00eb, n\u00eb pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb rasteve, jane bileta p\u00ebr nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb mbushur me abuzime t\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha formave. Dhe, nd\u00ebrsa ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb me vullnet t\u00eb lir\u00eb, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb p\u00ebr hesap t\u00eb familjes, vajzat e reja zgjedhin t\u2019ia falin rinin\u00eb dhe koh\u00ebn e tyre, nj\u00eb stili t\u00eb caktuar jetese, m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa nj\u00eb personi, kjo p\u00ebrb\u00ebn e th\u00ebn\u00eb me nj\u00eb fjali, \u00a0nj\u00eb histori klasike dashurie n\u00eb qytetin ton\u00eb. Klotilda ishte 18 vje\u00e7e kur u fejua me tashm\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortin e saj. P\u00ebr familjen \u00a0ishte zgjedhja m\u00eb e mire e mundshme, sepse jetonte n\u00eb Angli, duke provuar me kaq se \u00ebsht\u00eb njeri i aft\u00eb t\u00eb kujdeset p\u00ebr nj\u00eb familje. Ndon\u00ebse Klotilda pranoi, e v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb se as ajo nuk e dinte \u00e7far\u00eb donte dhe se, duke iu predikuar gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj q\u00eb burri m\u00eb i mir\u00eb\u00a0p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndar\u00eb jet\u00ebn, \u00ebsht\u00eb burri me t\u00eb cilin mund t\u00eb jesh krenar p\u00ebrball\u00eb t\u00eb njohurve t\u00eb tu, nuk rezistoi shum\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrsa tregonte dy muajt e par\u00eb t\u00eb fejes\u00ebs me nj\u00eb ndjesi qet\u00ebsie, se partneri i saj \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri i suksessh\u00ebm dhe ideali me t\u00eb cilin \u00ebsht\u00eb ushqyer, e kuptonte se nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri i paarritsh\u00ebm, i ftoht\u00eb dhe n\u00eb thelb, i huaj. Mendonte se kjo distanc\u00eb humbi muajt e par\u00eb t\u00eb martes\u00ebs, duke ngat\u00ebrruar bab\u00ebzin\u00eb e tij seksuale me ndjenja p\u00ebrkujdesi dhe interesi ndaj saj. Kishin nd\u00ebrtuar intimitet dhe, n\u00eb mendjen e saj \u00ebsht\u00eb krejt natyrale q\u00eb intimiteti t\u00eb nderohet me besnik\u00ebri dhe reciprocitet. Se p\u00ebrndryshe as q\u00eb do t\u00eb ekzistonte n\u00ebse t\u00eb dy nuk do t\u00eb donin t\u2019i q\u00ebndronin p\u00ebrkrah nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. Gjithsesi, Klotilda nuk e di, ndoshta prej diferenc\u00ebs q\u00eb kan\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00eb, ndoshta se ai ka l\u00ebvizur e udh\u00ebtuar goxha nd\u00ebrsa ajo jo, se eksperiencat seksuale t\u00eb t\u00eb shoqit t\u00eb saj, jan\u00eb t\u00eb kufizuara vet\u00ebm n\u00eb prostituta dhe gra n\u00eb mosh\u00eb. Duke mos e provuar kurr\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebn e r\u00ebnies, joshjes apo d\u00ebshir\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbrojtur dik\u00eb, ai mendonte se sapo Klotilda t\u00eb dilte nga gjendja e saj e naivitetit, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb atribut i mosh\u00ebs s\u00eb re, do t\u00eb zgjohej ndaj gjendjes s\u00eb saj t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb gjendja e frustrimit dhe, p\u00ebrball\u00eb frustrimit, dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb iluzion i braktisur. K\u00ebshtu duke menduar q\u00eb i ka b\u00ebr\u00eb ndonj\u00eb nder t\u00eb madh q\u00eb i ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb \u201ctitullin\u201d\u00a0bashk\u00ebshorte, q\u00eb i ka ofruar streh\u00eb, siguri, nj\u00eb familje, ai mendonte se Klotilda nuk ka m\u00eb asnj\u00eb lloj nevoje tjet\u00ebr. Shumic\u00ebn e koh\u00ebs ishte larg saj, n\u00ebp\u00ebr pun\u00eb dhe udh\u00ebtime si emigrant, koh\u00eb gjat\u00eb s\u00eb cil\u00ebs Klotilda vuan shum\u00eb. Fillimisht nga malli, se vet\u00ebkuptohet, ai \u00ebsht\u00eb larguar nga nevoja p\u00ebr t\u00eb siguruar t\u00eb ardhura familjes. Megjithat\u00eb, gradualisht Klotilda kupton, se ai e ka braktisur. I shoqi nuk i del asnj\u00ebher\u00eb p\u00ebr zot, nuk e mbron, nuk mundohet aspak ta kuptoj\u00eb, nuk i intereson q\u00eb Klotilda t\u00eb ndihet as e qet\u00eb dhe as e lumtur, duke i etiketuar ankesat e saj si p\u00ebr\u00e7artje grash, se burrat kan\u00eb problemet e v\u00ebrteta t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj bote, se Klotilda mjafton t\u00eb rrij\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe t\u00eb jet\u00eb pun\u00ebtore, ashtu si\u00e7 edhe dihej se duhej t\u00eb ishte, sepse n\u00eb marr\u00ebveshjen e tyre nuk kishte ndonj\u00eb pritshm\u00ebri tjet\u00ebr. Nj\u00eb rast konkret (dhe absurd). Vjehrra e Klotild\u00ebs e konsideron veten besimtare myslimane. \u00c7do dy-tre muaj blen hajmali nga nj\u00eb hoxh\u00eb, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ia jep Klotild\u00ebs me shpres\u00ebn se do t\u00eb lind\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb. Klotilda ka tashm\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl dhe nuk d\u00ebshiron m\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, por edhe sikur t\u00eb d\u00ebshironte, i shoqi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb fare n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. Gjithsesi. Klotilda e refuzon hajmalin\u00eb dhe k\u00ebrc\u00ebnon se do t\u2019i djeg\u00eb n\u00eb rast se i japin ndonj\u00eb hajmali tjet\u00ebr. Kur v\u00ebren se ia qepin fshehtas n\u00ebp\u00ebr xhepat e rrobave, vendosi t\u2019i tregoj\u00eb t\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebs, e cila i tha se \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka krejt normale, madje nj\u00eb nder q\u00eb po i b\u00ebjn\u00eb. Klotilda refuzon prap\u00eb dhe e quan vjehrr\u00ebn e vet shtrig\u00eb. Situata degradoi duke u p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb n\u00eb konflikt t\u00eb dyja familjet, her\u00eb pas here duke k\u00ebrc\u00ebnuar q\u00eb Klotilda t\u00eb kthehet te sht\u00ebpia e vajz\u00ebris\u00eb. N\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb kjo t\u00eb mos ndodh\u00eb, prind\u00ebrit e Klotild\u00ebs i sugjerojn\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb mos b\u00ebj\u00eb m\u00eb z\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb pun\u00eb. Gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebsaj kohe i shoqi i Klotild\u00ebs ka refuzuar t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshihet fare. Dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb nga ngjarjet q\u00eb Klotilda e cil\u00ebson si nxirje jete. Duke par\u00eb se ndodhet krejt vet\u00ebm, p\u00ebr t\u00eb rritur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrballuar familjen e tij t\u00eb pagdhendur, Klotilda fillon t\u00eb p\u00ebr\u00e7moj\u00eb t\u00eb shoqin, familjen e tij dhe familjen e vet. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 vajz\u00ebs, asgj\u00eb nuk e motivon t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb. Ka hequr dor\u00eb nga nevoja p\u00ebr t\u00eb shprehur pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb e veta, duke toleruar \u00e7do lloj fyerje, mungese konsiderate dhe respekti, deri edhe dhun\u00eb dhe abuzim, qoft\u00eb verbale, psikologjike dhe fizike. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb fajson veten, q\u00eb nuk ka shpresuar p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebrve\u00e7se t\u00eb gjej\u00eb nj\u00eb burr\u00eb t\u00eb hairit. E faj\u00ebson gjithashtu q\u00eb nuk di si ta nxjerr\u00eb veten nga kjo situat\u00eb, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e paaft\u00eb edhe t\u00eb l\u00ebviz\u00eb n\u00eb qytetin q\u00eb ka t\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebn q\u00eb jeton sepse nuk e njeh, pale t\u00eb dij\u00eb ku t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb ndihm\u00eb p\u00ebr gjendjen e saj. P\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt jeton, Klotilda nuk ka asnj\u00eb problem, p\u00ebrkundrazi, po t\u00eb d\u00ebgjonin pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb e saj do thonin se nuk ekzistojn\u00eb; n\u00eb rastin m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb do qeshnin. N\u00eb p\u00ebrfundim, Klotilda thot\u00eb se nuk shpreson se jeta e saj do t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb, por projekton t\u00eb gjitha \u00ebndrrat e veta tek e bija. Do ta rris\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos ket\u00eb pse t\u00eb duroj\u00eb asnj\u00eb gj\u00eb q\u00eb e b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndihet e tep\u00ebrt, e p\u00ebrjashtuar, e p\u00ebrdorur, e pad\u00ebshiruar, n\u00ebn kontrollin dhe m\u00ebshir\u00ebn e dikujt, etj. P\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e\u00a0saj, faj\u00ebson her\u00eb prind\u00ebrit, here papjekurin\u00eb e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb cil\u00ebt i ran\u00eb p\u00ebr pjes\u00eb, n\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb shumtat e rasteve faj\u00ebson veten. Nuk e kupton pse e refuzojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha modelet fem\u00ebrore q\u00eb ajo njeh, qoft\u00eb modeli i gruas \u201cp\u00ebr sht\u00ebpi\u201d, qoft\u00eb i asaj s\u00eb lir\u00ebs q\u00eb refuzon t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb kompromise, ndaj edhe ka hequr dor\u00eb nga vetvetja. 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